Phat-Phil
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Really? I have always taught my "good kids" that integrity, candor, honesty, commitment to their word... were the types of things that separated the good from the bad.
You just don't do things this way and if you are a "good" parent you don't allow it to happen. If you can't fulfill an obligation or change your mind then you tell the losing party straight up. You don't play games with them.
I don't like that he went back on his word either, that's not what I meant by saying he seemed like a good kid. He changed his mind and decided that Auburn gave him the best opportunity at furthering his career and if that's the worst thing he does in his life id say he's a pretty damn good kid. I hate it as we needed this guy as much as anyone in this class but it is what it is. And I've definitely had changes of heart before that I'm sure others took as a slap in the face when that wasn't my intent and it was a decision I thought was the best for me so I can't throw stones. And I refuse to believe he is a bad person just because he changed his mind about where he wanted to play football. Trust me when I say that I wish guys would not commit until they were 100% sure that that's where they wanted to be and there was no chance of that changing but unfortunately it doesn't happen that way a lot of the time. If the shoe was on the other foot it would be a completely different story and he would be welcomed with open arms and praised for making a tough decision. But when it happens to us it's not so easy to do. I think the biggest reason I have no ill feelings towards him is because of the news we received about RichRollin this morning, there are much more important things to worry or get upset about than a kid changing his mind about where he wants to play football. Sorry I'll get off my soap box now.
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