A good read about recruiting

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http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/26/sports/ncaafootball/26recruit.html?_r=1&ref=ncaafootball

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McFarland’s mother, Kashemeyia Adams, said she received numerous offers, including one for an interest-free loan for a former classmate, if her son were to choose Texas. She said she did not believe the offers were affiliated with the Texas football staff.

But the best summation of his experience might have come from a paper he wrote for his English class comparing Oklahoma and Texas. The paper, “Red River Rivals Recruit,” includes a description of a wild party hosted by Longhorns fans at an upscale hotel in Dallas after the Oklahoma-Texas game on Oct. 11.

“I will never forget the excitement amongst all participants,” McFarland wrote. “Alcohol was all you can drink, money was not an option. Girls were acting wild by taking off their tops, and pulling down their pants. Girls were also romancing each other. Some guys loved every minute of the freakiness some girls demonstrated. I have never attended a party of this magnitude.”

He continued: “The attitude of the people at the party was that everyone should drink or not come to the party. Drugs were prevalent with no price attached.”

He compared that with a house party hosted by a sorority at Oklahoma.

“Drinks were plentiful, but not to the extent they were” at the Dallas party, he wrote. “Some people were tipsy, but in control of themselves.”

He described the atmosphere as pleasant and added: “Some people who attend the University of Oklahoma seem to represent different values than some people who attend the University of Texas.”

That opulence did not touch what McFarland saw on a visit to U.S.C. the weekend after Thanksgiving. After beating Notre Dame, U.S.C. players rented a stretch Hummer and took him to a party. It worried Adams that her son might become enthralled with such luxury.
 
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Sounds like this kid may have opened up a whole can of worms.

Whatever happened to the motto.."whatever happens on recruiting trips stays on recruiting trips?"
 
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Interesting, thats more than likely the case in a lot of places. Its as competitive in recruiting as it is on the field, even more so in cases like these. Some kids get sucked into all of the lime light and the night life, others stay more grounded. Looks like this kid has a pretty good head on his shoulders.
 
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After reading the story, I think it's more the kid's mom is crazy. He wanted to go to Texas, and she wanted him to go to OU. She seems like she's going to call 3 times a day to check on everything.
 
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Is any or all of this a NCAA violation? Loan to a friend? Parties with donors and so on where there is drinking and drugs? Anyone know? :popcorn:
 
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After reading the story, I think it's more the kid's mom is crazy. He wanted to go to Texas, and she wanted him to go to OU. She seems like she's going to call 3 times a day to check on everything.


Yea she wouldn't want her "J-Mac" to be anywhere a girl would sit on a guy's lap.

Sounds like mama loved the attention as well. She's gonna get her 15 minutes of fame. But from hearing her talk...this won't be the last time she is in the news.
 
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After reading the story, I think it's more the kid's mom is crazy. He wanted to go to Texas, and she wanted him to go to OU. She seems like she's going to call 3 times a day to check on everything.


Exactly. It sounds like she was contributing to the pressure instead of giving her opinion and letting her son be his own man and choose his own path.
 
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Exactly. It sounds like she was contributing to the pressure instead of giving her opinion and letting her son be his own man and choose his own path.

You don't have kids do you?

Maybe she saw how dirty recruiting is, and just wanted the best, safest environment for her child. Taking shots at his mom is uncalled for from this story, unless you know her and the situation.
 
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You don't have kids do you?

Maybe she saw how dirty recruiting is, and just wanted the best, safest environment for her child. Taking shots at his mom is uncalled for from this story, unless you know her and the situation.

Ok Moral Mike.
 
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You don't have kids do you?

Maybe she saw how dirty recruiting is, and just wanted the best, safest environment for her child. Taking shots at his mom is uncalled for from this story, unless you know her and the situation.

You don't think that OU throws parties that are just as crazy and he just didn't want to say how bad it was, or it wasn't as bad the one night?

Theres really not much of a difference in parties on every campus.
 
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You don't have kids do you?

Maybe she saw how dirty recruiting is, and just wanted the best, safest environment for her child. Taking shots at his mom is uncalled for from this story, unless you know her and the situation.

I agree with you, To me it sounds like a mother who has never been seen as much, but now that her son has a chance to make something of himself as is essentially being bribed by schools and sounds like she wasn't aware that stuff like this went on. And how exactly does she know about this? Sounds like her son values her opinion and they seem to have at least a somewhat honest relationship based on this story alone. I mean the boy wrote a paper on it, so its not all her. If one of my children were exposed to this atmosphere I would hope that they would be honest with me as he was with his mother. Just my opinion and before you start, I am well aware that this goes on everywhere, I am just saying that its not all "mom" sayin, "Dat fooseball recruitin is da debil its givin yo mama da brain pain"
 
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You don't think that OU throws parties that are just as crazy and he just didn't want to say how bad it was, or it wasn't as bad the one night?

Theres really not much of a difference in parties on every campus.

They most likely do...H@ll we have been one of the top party schools for awhile.. I think we held the #1 spot for a long time if I'm not mistaken..
 
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They most likely do...H@ll we have been one of the top party schools for awhile.. I think we held the #1 spot for a long time if I'm not mistaken..

I think Arizona State currently has a hold on that title, within 30 minutes of Lake havasu and 75+ degrees year round, imagine the debauchery
 
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You don't have kids do you?

Maybe she saw how dirty recruiting is, and just wanted the best, safest environment for her child. Taking shots at his mom is uncalled for from this story, unless you know her and the situation.


How am I taking shots at her? It's obvious she and the grandmother upped the pressure. He and they admitted it. I'm sure it was all in McFarland's best interest but that doesn't mean she went about it the right way. They even talk about arguments caused by the pressure. It's a win/win situation for him and she needed to let him pick where he'd be most comfortable. After all, it is his future and not hers.

BTW, just because someone is a parent doesn't mean that they know how to be a good parent and vice versa.
 
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You don't think that OU throws parties that are just as crazy and he just didn't want to say how bad it was, or it wasn't as bad the one night?

Theres really not much of a difference in parties on every campus.


Actually, I doubt there are nearly as many "wild" parties in Norman as there are in Austin. Certainly, none comparing to the one described in Dallas. There's a big difference between a frat party and an organized event in a major city with strippers and free drugs being handed out.
 

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