I heard about the comments Freak.
I think he has a point.
There's simply too much aloofness on The Hill right now.
I wasn't impressed with Phil's "Equity" comment either.
What the heck does it mean when you say "We've built up a little equity here." Does that mean you can take a season off? Does it mean you can experiment with letting the hens run the henhouse (maybe that's a bad example for married guys)?
When you have a player in college labeling himself The Future, that has to be a negative thing because; no matter where you are, there's going to be a lot of players who are going to view that as a non-team thing. We had several players who did not like Kelley's braggadocia.
That is a leadership problem that goes all the way to the Head Coach's table.
When you try to coach these kids to make good choices off the field, not to drink to excess, not to get into altercations, not to break laws, and you have a lot of them doing it anyway, it's a sign of selfishness on the player's part, because those choices hurt the entire team.
How can you expect them to focus on the field, make the right choices in game situations, and play as a unit when they're doing things off the field that clearly betrays the spirit of teamwork.
That is where the Head Coach has to step in and be a bit of a party pooper. He shouldn't be too concerned with being their friend, he should be concerned with being their mentor.