UTvolz9808
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I have always had my kids, landen (8), Lexie (7), and Laylyn (5). Never married their mom but when we split up when Laylyn was 2 months old, she told the cops to let me take the kids. She parties and rarely sees her kids for 5 years. She would go months without seeing or speaking to them. When she did want to take them for a few days, I always let her. 2 years ago I moved out of the town I had always lived in and the kids began all hitting school age. They have had a life he'd for 2 years with one weekend a month visits to their moms. Their mom has had at least 5 different residences on the last year and more in the last 2. Some of the places she lived were with boyfriends. The kids would come home telling us about her new boyfriend. One time when she was asleep, the oldest was trying to open food with a knife and had to get stitches. We had to meet her at the hospital to take him home. She had 3 cp's cases against her for her filthy house and maggots in laylyns bottle. I remember picking them up one day and Laylyn had feces crusted in her diaper and drenched in sweat because their mom didn't have air conditioning. The mom has had several run ins with the law including DWI. Currently she doesn't have a car or a job and lives with her mother. She abisedtfood stamps by constantly receiving benefits but not allowing the food to go with the kids. Sold the food stamps. And wouldn't allow me to have access to their doctor or Medicaid information. Lexie had to get a few shots to start school and Laylyn had to have them ALL. It took my wife and me a year to get Laylyn caught up so she could attend school. The whole time she had them on medicade they never saw a dentist. The past 2 years we have had them on medicade we were able to bring them to the dentist and fix their teeth. A week and a half ago she called me gripping that landen was at the park play alone. She called the cops and the cops said it was fine we can see the park, we were all outside back and forth all day and we live in a gates community. She sent her mom over to get the kids and they wanted to go so bad and I have never not allowed them to go. So they went. She lied and said that she would bring them to school Monday. She never did . she tried to withdrawal them from school and they wouldn't let her. We don't have any court orders at all. They have missed an entire week of school and landen has dilexia and already repeated kindergarten. Laylyn had an appointment to get glasses and her mom doesn't even know she needs them. The worst part.. She wont let me talk to them at all. I call. I text. I leave voice mails. She claims she filed papers and I should be getting served soon, but I can't afford a lawyer. I was hoping she did file so I could get in a court room asap with a lawyer but I didn't realize I have absolutely no one to help me hire one. My case is strong. She can't just rip my childrent from their home unexpected or explained and then not let me talk to them. If she is granted cusody and child support, she will bring the kids back so I'll be taking care of them and paying child support. In almost 9 years she has not been able to be a real mother. Kids get in the way of her partying. She can't wake up and bring them to school everyday and help them with homework everyday. Just a month ago she had to bring them home because grandmother and husband were fighting and on the verge of a dicorce. There is a major hole in my heart and in my house.
Sorry if this is not the place for this but i dont know what to do
Sorry if this is not the place for this but i dont know what to do
