I understand where you're coming from.' I'veeen on Android since the HTC Droid Incredible. Have had the Nexus 5 (and Nexus 7 tablet), Note 3, Note 5, Pixel XL, and Pixel 3a XL (I'm sure I'm forgetting a couple). That being said, I'm finally swapping over to Apple for my next phone.
In the early days, Android was the innovator ... large screens, widgets, custom UI, NFC, Tasker. Today, it doesn't feel like there's much innovation going on. Granted, the Pixel has a great camera, but so does Apple. I'm fact, there may be things that Androids can do that iPhones can't, but I'm not aware of them.
Conversely, iPhones don't seem to have the persistent battery life issues that my Androids have had. Their app store is much more robust (I hated it when Apple bought DarkSky last year, my favorite weather app). And the market for third party accessories is much better than Android's.
I have ragged on Apple for YEARS and have had long-time wars going on between me and my buddies in the Android/Apple space, but I'm finally moving over. I have purchased iPhones for my family through uptradeit.com, but the used iPhone 11's on there are the same price as new ones from Apple. Older phones have a decent price break.
Anyway, just thought I'd throw in my $0.02.