Ive told this story before but its a lesson for those who still have relatives from that era.
My wife's grandfather fought in WWII. He was a german and yes he was a Nazi. Reason was that when the war broke out and recruiting began, his options were join the party and he as well as his family would be taken care of or he was on his own. No brainer when you dont know the atrocities going on. I met him once and then passed away in 98. His wife, my wife's step grandmother, was much younger than Opa by about 20+ years so she lived until 2021.
On one of our trips to see her, my father asked if I could ask her some questions about the war. Dad was a huge european war buff. So one night we're in Oma's dining room and I said I wanted to ask about Opa and the war. Mind you this was me asking in english then translated thru my wife. Oma opened up and told us about what Opa went thru. Sent to France to fight, injured and sent back to Germany, after recovery sent to Russia to fight, being caught, sent to POW camp above the Artic Circle, being released and having to walk all the way back to Berlin. Then she starte telling us of her young life during the war. Being sent to the country out of war's way, learning to milk cows and make butter, etc.. Once the war was over the Russians terrorized the children and she ran away. Got on a train to Berlin but the Russians captured it and they had to walk to the remainder. She arrived to a Berlin ravaged by war and was taken in by a family. Every day she went to the train station asking if anyone was going to Berlin and if so she gave them a letter addressed to her mom and where she was. Eventually there was a knock on the door and mom found her.
That's a quick synopsis of the conversation. I started out writing everything she said then remembered I had my iPod and started recording. This was a history I've never heard as was amazed. In the end I thanked her for telling me but more than anything telling the story in front of my then teenaged son. He was able to hear first hand accounts of things we are never taught in school.
The recordings are some of my most prized possessions