Rasputin_Vol
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My daughter in law teaches elementary in Tennessee and they practice it as well.I respectfully disagree with it working very well though, especially since I've worked in juvenile lockup(14-18) and that physical type of aggressive punishment is the last thing they need.In school suspension,supsensions,time-outs are a lot more reasonable alternative punishment .Parents need to be held somewhat accountable as well IMO.I teach/ coach at a high school here in Texas. We still practice corporal punishment up to the 12th grade. It works VERY well at every level. The parents love it also.
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My daughter in law teaches elementary in Tennessee and they practice it as well.I respectfully disagree with it working very well though, especially since I've worked in juvenile lockup(14-18) and that physical type of aggressive punishment is the last thing they need.In school suspension,supsensions,time-outs are a lot more reasonable alternative punishment .Parents need to be held somewhat accountable as well IMO.
I was in second grade (circa 1980/81) when I had my first experience with a classmate given "time out". Even as a second grader, I thought it was bogus. While the rest of the kids in class were threatened with the paddle, this kid was placed in a corner and given time out. Even the kid knew he was getting over. Time out is no way to discipline a kid. Spare the rod, spoil the child.
One of the few times I agree with you, although whip is a little strong of a word. If any child believes they can do whatever they want without fear of punishment they will continue to do what they have been doing that is counter productive. And whoever believes that time outs or loving conversations regarding their disgressions will correct the problem is sadly mistaken. Kids just see that as "getting away with it". A good smack on the butt is worth a thousand "you're in timeout so go sit in the corners".If you don't whip your kids, then you don't love them.
there is no general rule across the board for handling children. I have twins and have to take completely different approaches in teaching them right from wrong. I am an advocate of corporal punishment if the child's personality dictates it, but it is no panacea.
I would always rather get whipped than get grounded or something at home. Pain isnt that big of a deal and it goes away. Not being able to do stuff for 2 weeks is garbage.
Punishments at school don't work very well at school no matter what they are IMO. Timeout, Suspension, detention, they all suck and don't work.
It starts at home. If parents let their kids act like delinquents with no regard to authority, then tie the hands of the educational system they in trust to raise their child. That system is broken from Point A.
While in school, I got every paddling/belt I needed and deserved much more that what I got both home and school.
The Turney Center better be annexing some land in the next few years to allow for Time-out sessions.
I would hardly consider spanking aggression. There are rules, child obeys them, there is no spanking.