just had it last weekend (also my 17 yr anniversary) my sister took the kids for the weekend and it was just me and the mrs. with no potty accidents , no screaming or arguing over toys, got to go see a grown up movie (Mr and Mrs. Smith), got to go out to eat without sticky fingers in my ear or around my neck. Spent to morning in bed reading the paper drinking coffee and other activities that don't happen when the kids are home, you get the point but even after such a great weekend it waws great to get my boys back and start up the crazy, loud, cluttered world that is my life!