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The young man we adopted at age 10 was pumped so full of ADHD drugs that his brain could not function. We got him out of public schools, which is why he was put on the drugs in the first place, and now he is doing well. Still makes some stupid decisions as all kids do, but leaves for basic in Grand Lakes on Monday.
ADHD might be needed in some cases, but in most it is just a crutch.
Nope. Hyperactive kids ARE normal, problem is adults don't want to deal with them and want to be absolved for being lazy parents/teachers.
You're thinking too small. There's better points to be made about how ****ty standardized education is.
My parents were anything but lazy. They did everything to channel my hyperactivity at home. The problem with public schools is that they want to do the opposite of that.
No argument from me on public schools. Our sons 2nd or 3rd grade teacher wanted to put him on ADHD meds, scared us to death so I started doing some research. Turns out every kid in his class minus him and 1 more was on ADHD meds. So I not so politely told the teacher and principle where they could stick those drugs. Ended up in a big fight that almost went to court.
I'm guessing you have never parented a child with ADHD.
I habitually ran/snuck off when I was wee. They lost me at Disney World for 2 hours, haha.
There are a lot of "good" parents that wish they put their kid on a leash.
It's a lazy way to keep track of a kid but very effective.
so you were a little kid. its the Michael Douglas excuse. "I am addicted to sex" no. you just cant control yourself. every guy/kid goes through the same things (depending on the issue).
I had problems concentrating in class, couldn't focus on school work or playing an instrument.
I am the same age, I grew up with people who have/had ADHD. they could focus on plenty of things when they put their mind too it. funny enough that is how the real world works too.
No argument from me on public schools. Our sons 2nd or 3rd grade teacher wanted to put him on ADHD meds, scared us to death so I started doing some research. Turns out every kid in his class minus him and 1 more was on ADHD meds. So I not so politely told the teacher and principle where they could stick those drugs. Ended up in a big fight that almost went to court.