I wouldn't say charmed, but I've got a few of them interested in me/us enough to want to spend time here. AND I've got select "good guys that are worth dating or date-worthy OR I'm working on making them date-worthy if they are clueless haha.
The fact that I eat healthy and am trying to learn how to cook by actually cooking, is a very attractive quality apparently. Plus, we have real food around.
They also like that I have real furniture and that my house is a comfortable place to hang out or spend the night and I'll make breakfast and that they can choose to stay at my place when I'm playing golf or tennis on a Saturday morning or if I'm doing something on Thursday night, they can join me or be there when I get back - which is one of my favorite things. Some kids, guys and gals like doing laundry at my place.
I've essentially re-created what I had at my parents house- a place where people my age want to spend time. For the girls, I told them that for now, I'm not even interested in dating until I actually get to know them. The fact that I'm not hitting on any of them makes even more yummy - their words. haha