He struggles to admit wrong.
I hope he gets jumped by fifty 9th graders dressed as Chris Rock on Halloween and the give him a good, solid kick to the shin.
That’s Jada Smith brainwashing right there. She’s the one that told him to do something, and I have zero doubts she told him to not be ashamed. She’s warped him.He said he admits to being flawed but "won't be ashamed" of what he did. For real, Will Smith??!!?! I've been a Will Smith fan since Fresh Prince and I can't even defend this, it's abhorrent.
If he really wants to apologize, why not send the recorded message directly to Rock's people instead of making it public?
Rock calling Will Smith, Suge Smith, was awesome.
He said he admits to being flawed but "won't be ashamed" of what he did. For real, Will Smith??!!?! I've been a Will Smith fan since Fresh Prince and I can't even defend this, it's abhorrent.
First - Wow. Three straight replies to 3 different people. Coming on strong for a Monday.You didn't watch the video if you are asking this.
The apology was for everyone, not just Rock. Rock isn't the only person who was wronged.
First - Wow. Three straight replies to 3 different people. Coming on strong for a Monday.
Second - If I wrong someone, I go to that person individually or send something directly to that person. I don't post a group apology or individual apology on my social media or put it out for everyone. That was my point. Not sure why I am replying because I foresee this as becoming a back and forth and don't have the time, energy, nor desire for that and this topic certainly isn't worth it.
“I am deeply remorseful and I’m trying to be remorseful without being ashamed of myself.
You are missing the point. He SHOULD be ashamed of himself. It reminds me of people who say they're sorry then immediately follow it up with "but..."
You're either sorry or you're not. There are no "buts" and they're are no conditions.
He’s done nothing “right” since the beginning of this mess. He just has to outlive his ****- up.You said he said he "won't be ashamed." He said he's being remorseful while trying not to feel ashamed. He didn't say that he refuses to feel shame and it seems like he probably did/does feel it.
Also, what is useful about feeling shame on top of remorse? Shame is an external force. It's a feeling based on how other people negatively perceive you. Remorse is an internal force. We don't want people to offer apologies because of external forces. Those are the type that feel cheap. We want it to come from the heart. Will Smith said exactly the right thing with this part of the apology.
I don't care one way or the other. That said, if anything, he should apologize for that sissy slap just because of how unmanly it was . If I was going to get up in front of God and everybody to "defend my wife", and that's what I followed with, I'd be ashamed also. I don't care if I got my butt whooped after what I did, it wouldn't be no sissy slap, I'd punch someone first. Jmo, tldr