'14 GA OL Orlando Brown (Signed with Oklahoma)

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PrattvilleVol said:
I was taught to never ever hit a woman under any circumstance and held that belief close. My ex wife took full advantage of that once clawing my face so bad I had to take a weeks vacation from work. Still I never hit her. The last straw was when she put a dirty mop in my face as I had just gotten home from work and just started on an Arby's roast beef sandwich. After three years of this garbage I had had enough and responded with a roast beef fast ball right in her face cheese sauce included. My living room looked like a crime scene. I left with a smile and never blinked. My only regret is not punching her out the first time she wanted to man up.

Always treat a lady like a lady and when they want to act like a man and physically assault you...Don't take it.
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You were abused. I understand why you finally acted out, although now that I've reread it I DO find the flying sandwich amusing. Glad you made it through.

As to abusers in general...

Always get away from an abuser. Don't wait. Don't even bother sticking around to fight except if forced to on the way out the door (they want you to fight because that justifies them hitting you in their sick brains) - abusers find ways to mess with you even if they stop hitting. Get them out of your life because they will do more psychological damage to you than damn near anything else and while those claw marks heal the psychological wounds stay.

Man or woman - the advice is the same. Get people like that out of your life as fast as possible. The only way to win against them is to leave and lead a happy life without them. That's their mindset and what hurts them - losing control over those they abuse and walking out the door is the complete loss of what they're attempting to control. And if possible, never give them the pleasure of knowing you were even tempted to look back.
 
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UTProf said:
You were abused. I understand why you finally acted out, although now that I've reread it I DO find the flying sandwich amusing. Glad you made it through.

As to abusers in general...

Always get away from an abuser. Don't wait. Don't even bother sticking around to fight except if forced to on the way out the door (they want you to fight because that justifies them hitting you in their sick brains) - abusers find ways to mess with you even if they stop hitting. Get them out of your life because they will do more psychological damage to you than damn near anything else and while those claw marks heal the psychological wounds stay.

Man or woman - the advice is the same. Get people like that out of your life as fast as possible. The only way to win against them is to leave and lead a happy life without them. That's their mindset and what hurts them - losing control over those they abuse and walking out the door is the complete loss of what they're attempting to control. And if possible, never give them the pleasure of knowing you were even tempted to look back.
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Spot on post Prof. The truth is our society has decayed to the point that women in general aren't the June Cleaver's they once were.
 
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LebanonVolunteer said:
I agree. Ideally it should not happen. Am I going to award some woman some huge amount of $ because she threw a punch and was punched in return? No.

Do I think it should be different in court if it's a woman punching a man or a man punching a man? I don't. Self defense is self defense IMO. Yes, the man SHOULD just walk away. If he is punched and returns a punch should it be different because it's a woman who threw the punch? I don't think so. Lock her up for being the aggressor. Had she not thrown the punch, she would not have ended up injured.

If it plays out where the woman did nothing at all wrong, Mixon will be hung out to dry. Just have to see what actually happened.
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Couldn't agree more. I've seen too many drunk girls slap, punch, kick etc a guy, knowing (or at least thinking) that they'll get away with it. I watched my now wife do it to a random guy in a bar in college who bumped into her wrong as we were leaving. Funny thing is I ended up working with that guy about a yr later and we became good friends. Luckily he didn't remember me, as I did him.
 
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jave36 said:
I'm not saying all women are incapable of inflicting harm, but this chick was tiny, no way she could have hurt him. I'm not jumping to any conclusions, she had no weapon and she's 5'3 130lb. Those are facts. In those exact circumstances, there is no excuse to break a girls face, IMO.
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You think he intended to break her face? I'm sure he just threw a normal punch. Doubt he thought if I hit her right I'll break 4 bones. When you're packing 220# of solid muscle it'll obviously do more damage than if a 170# man hit her.
 
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PrattvilleVol said:
Spot on post Prof. The truth is our society has decayed to the point that women in general aren't the June Cleaver's they once were.
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I'm just glad you got away and are doing well because sometimes they go so far as to kill and I don't think it matters if they're a man or a woman - abusers can and do sometimes kill. And anyone who treats another person like a dog is already on that path.

I had a friend (a woman) who was a victim of domestic abuse. She never told us and god I wish she had. She wound up beaten, strangled, and left in a rural area - a shallow grave under gravel. That man is now in prison but it won't bring my friend back or erase the guilt I feel for not asking more questions. I never suspected a thing and it haunts me - haunts a lot of us who knew her because no one suspected but she left a note hidden in her desk at work telling us who to look for if something ever happened. She was planning on leaving him - one word and she'd have had a small army on her side (and I'll tell you true - knowing what I know now, if I found out one of my male friends was being treated this way I'd rally an army for him as well because I know full well the abuser would cower and act all sweet as pie and that's a good thing for when you need to get the hell away) but sometimes people are too ashamed to ask for help.

She was a very strong person but this can happen to even strong people. I'm glad you're talking about what happened because people need to understand that it can happen to anyone - doesn't matter how strong willed or physically strong you are. Abusers tend to be so good at manipulation - it's like they're con artists.
 
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Burger said:
Go on YouTube, type in Titus the last Noelle. Watch that episode and realize that a lot of women abuse men.
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I don't have to go anywhere to know that some girl is not going to abuse a 225 lb college football running back. Let me see if I have my facts right - on the one hand we have a girl - possibly with her gay friend. On the other hand we have a 225 lb + D1 running back. D1 running back - girl. And as I understand it the girl didn't strike the Mixon and Mixon struck the girl shattering her face.

What am I missing here. Did she call him a mean name or something.
 
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MockingVol said:
Actually greater than 40% of abuse in relationships is perpetrated by the female partner. The media and justice system just doesn't make a big deal about it.
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If more than 40% of the abuse in relationships is perpetrated by the female - then you have 2 girls in the relationship - just saying.
 
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Fullfillmer said:
I don't have to go anywhere to know that some girl is not going to abuse a 300 lb college football lineman. Let me see if I have my facts right - on the one hand we have a girl - possibly with her gay friend. On the other hand we have a 300 lb + D1 lineman. D1 lineman - girl. And as I understand it the girl didn't strike the lineman and the lineman struck the girl shattering her face.

What am I missing here. Did she call him a mean name or something.
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Zeus didn't hit anyone. It's his new teammate (perhaps ex-teammate now) Mixon that broke that girl's face in 4 places. He was 200+ but the story OU fans are telling about this encounter doesn't add up.

Women can and do abuse their partners but that's not what happened here.
 
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Fullfillmer said:
I don't have to go anywhere to know that some girl is not going to abuse a 225 lb college football running back. Let me see if I have my facts right - on the one hand we have a girl - possibly with her gay friend. On the other hand we have a 225 lb + D1 running back. D1 running back - girl. And as I understand it the girl didn't strike the Mixon and Mixon struck the girl shattering her face.

What am I missing here. Did she call him a mean name or something.
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Titus was about 225 pounds when that happened. Anybody can be a victim of abuse, but I don't see this as a abuse case.
 
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Fullfillmer said:
I don't have to go anywhere to know that some girl is not going to abuse a 225 lb college football running back. Let me see if I have my facts right - on the one hand we have a girl - possibly with her gay friend. On the other hand we have a 225 lb + D1 running back. D1 running back - girl. And as I understand it the girl didn't strike the Mixon and Mixon struck the girl shattering her face.

What am I missing here. Did she call him a mean name or something.
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I find it difficult to imagine that Mixon just bashed her face in without some sort of provocation. Just because he's a big, athletic kid doesn't make him some sort of trash automatically. Now, he may be, but until all the facts come out; we don't know shiz. I have (not proudly) been in a bar scuffle or two and I'll admit I've hit someone that caught me with a swing and not known if it were man, woman, child, or giant honking bear. I'm not excusing any sort of violence, as I believe we can all just laugh it off, but you can't judge either person involved in this without the whole story.
 
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Actual photo of the woman in question:

Mixon should feel fortunate he is still alive.
 

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PA Vol said:
Actual photo of the woman in question:

Mixon should feel fortunate he is still alive.
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This is the woman in question.

The photo was from a previous drug arrest with 4 charges total. Also there is a current bench warrant for her over a prior situation.
 

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PA Vol said:
Actual photo of the woman in question:

Mixon should feel fortunate he is still alive.
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Must've been. LOL. At least that's how he saw her.

Leb - way to stoop even lower than your previous OU rumor mongering that was and remains absurd and conspiratorial. Her charges all stem from one arrest, a year ago, at 19 (underage alcohol, open container, and 'paraphanelia'). IOW, standard college kid stuff and for many High School kid stuff.

That said, her history is irrelevant since she's the victim. If I beat the hell out of someone - it doesn't matter one bit if they once did something stupid or even bad. I'd still be to blame for my actions - that's the law.

She's no public figure either. Stop smearing... well unless you're an OU fan who can't accept that their 5* broke someone's face.
 
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Mixon should be punished - I want to get that out there right off the bat.

Having said that, if there's truth to the story that she provoked him with the first punch then she shouldn't be rewarded for her behavior. I'm kind of surprised by the opinion in this thread that she's a woman and therefore can do no wrong.

Again - throw the book at Mixon. He should go down. But if it's true that she initiated the fight, then I'd hate to see her rewarded for it beyond simply covering her medical bills. Awarding her extra money for drunken belligerence is just sending the wrong message to everybody, again IF she truly initiated a physical altercation.
 
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