I think I've shown I don't do that. I have backed Jordan Horston through her downs and ups and still back her 100%. She and her Mom have stayed the course and I have done the same...I don't turn my back on any player, until they turn their back to me, and then it's on! , or should I say,,,it's off!
I know who I am and what I can bring to the table, if they don't want to eat, I won't force food down their throat. I have the same self-rule for players who leave my teams in AAU/Exposure (aka "Jumpers"),,,if they leave without talking it out with me,,for another team and then want to come back,,,they've got work to do to make it happen.
If they talk to me and leave my team to try to better their future or for more exposure, I say , go for it...but if they jump with no notice or reason,,C YA!