wildnkrazykat
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Lost my grandfather on Dec 28th last year. He was in the hospital with pneumonia in Christmas. We always went down to their house as a family and had christmas eve and ate and opened gifts. Now that hes gone its just really sad.
I know there's a lot of people on VN around my age (25). If you are spending Christmas with your grandparents please cherish it. You simply don't know if they will be there next year and it will never be the same without them.
I lost both grandpas recently - one this summer and one a couple years ago. I almost made it through today without losing it, almost. Last night was a different story. I putyself in bed around 9 and spent the time almost in mourning.
Be the driving force for normalcy. Whether it's keeping old traditions (which we've done) or starting new ones in his honor. Both of My papaws loved seeing us altogether more than anything so that's what we hold to, even through the grief. I'd bet that's what yours would want too. Prayers for you.