Rasputin_Vol
"Slava Ukraina"
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OK, keep talking...This is how my brother is, and it’s maddening listen to him talk about his financial decisions sometimes. He originally financed a new car at some extortionate interest rate, and was trying to lower his car payment a year or so ago.
Continue...Through some sort of refinancing, he managed to get the monthly payment down from $600 to about $400, but extended the loan for two years longer than the original term.
Is your issue with your brother or with the lending system that is allowed to issue these BS loans to unworthy people?Even the quickest math showed he’d cost himself several thousand dollars in the long run. When it’s all said and done I think he’s going to end up having paid $40k+ for a car with a sticker price between $15k-$20k.
So maybe the problem that should be fixed is child support court... and not the issue of educating teens on how the corrupt system works.Child support court. I attend it quite regularly because of me job.
So maybe the problem that should be fixed is child support court... and not the issue of educating teens on how the corrupt system works.
Why is it always on the individual to bend towards the rulkes rather than the rules to bend towards the people?
"Of the People. By the People. For the People"
Not...
"Of the Law. By the Law. For the Law"
They exist both because people don't understand money . . . AND because many people just don't have options. I wish people were more educated about at least using installment lenders vs the Pawn, Title loan and Check Cashers. At least there's a path to pay off an installment lender.
If the folks coming in paid their end of raising their kids, it wouldn't be an issue. There are 2 sides to everything.So maybe the problem that should be fixed is child support court... and not the issue of educating teens on how the corrupt system works.
Why is it always on the individual to bend towards the rulkes rather than the rules to bend towards the people?
"Of the People. By the People. For the People"
Not...
"Of the Law. By the Law. For the Law"
To be fair, that BS is useful if you’re ever confronted by a rogue triangle.The math class I took at Austin Peay for my Bachelor's (Mathematical Thought and Practice) was the best math class I've ever had. It taught about interest rates and actual knowledge. No A squared + b squared = c squared BS.
I am critical of some of Dave's advice, but the snowball is a great tool for people with multiple balances. It's a little counterintuitive to payoff according to balance rather than interest rate, but the psychology of it seems to work.I got into big credit card debt several years ago and got out if it by following Dave Ramsey snowball method. I now have one cc for personal and one for biz. I use them for whatever I can now and pay them off immediately. It stresses me out to carry any balances anymore.
My wife's uncle, during the pandemic, refinanced into a 40 (yes you read that right) year mortgage on his house. I didn't even know they offered those.This is how my brother is, and it’s maddening listen to him talk about his financial decisions sometimes. He originally financed a new car at some extortionate interest rate, and was trying to lower his car payment a year or so ago. Through some sort of refinancing, he managed to get the monthly payment down from $600 to about $400, but extended the loan for two years longer than the original term. Even the quickest math showed he’d cost himself several thousand dollars in the long run. When it’s all said and done I think he’s going to end up having paid $40k+ for a car with a sticker price between $15k-$20k.
It’s not really disdain for family. My issue is almost entirely with an unregulated system that effectively legalizes loan sharks, but it’s still maddening to see a family member be so short sighted and not sit down and have a quick look over the math before signing. The terms were all laid out before him and he ultimately chose to agree to them.OK, keep talking...
Continue...
Is your issue with your brother or with the lending system that is allowed to issue these BS loans to unworthy people?
The system is set up to whwere these lenders can privatize their earnings but socialize their losses thrpugh bailouts.
Damn it... you people not only hate our fellow Americans, but you have an example here where this guy has disdain for his own FAMILY!!! Your brother is not the problem. The problem is the lenders being able to leand to him in the first place. Same goes with studen loans. The issue isn't the borrower that is a Gay Latin History major... it is with the lenders. WTF is the reason for having an underwriter?
And LOL... I bet most of you clowns would be the same ones ready to defend Donald Trump in his RE loan case (rightfully), even though there were no victims and the underwriters of the loan didn't see any red flags, yet you would come down like a ton of bricks on some shaggy haired millenial or zoomer with a $50k+ student loan.
You people are no different than the people that have conditioned you... You HATE you fellow Americans.
The thing is, he bought this car about five years ago when it was a GREAT time to buy a car, and he’s still going to end up paying that much. I was thinking about a new car early last year, and then the dealership told me even with top-tier credit the best interest rate I could hope for was 7%. Hard pass. I’ll happily keep riding around in my paid for Jetta that I was irritated to have paid 2% interest on when I bought it in 2016.
Agreed. Plus, I’ve had my debit card hacked before. At least you are safe from charges with a cc, and criminals can’t access your bank accountWe put every expense we can on credit cards. I don't think we even own a debit card.
Never carry a balance. Reap the points/cash back and credit score (although that's way overrated once you are established).
I don't know if there's a stereotype about that or not, but it does seem like many are childlike. I'll never forget in 2008 the married MD couples calling into Dave Ramsey and saying "this year we only made $560,000 combined and we are about to lose everything. We're going to lose two of our houses and two of our airplanes and two yachts and so forth and so on.MDs carry more credit card debt than you would imagine.
I was going down the road one day with some co-workers (we didn't have anything to talk about) and I asked "What do people think when they walk into a business for people that can't handle money" and one of my coworkers (UT Grad) said "my brother is one of them. He says 'just tell me what I can get today'". So that was why I wrote that, honestly.This is how my brother is, and it’s maddening listen to him talk about his financial decisions sometimes. He originally financed a new car at some extortionate interest rate, and was trying to lower his car payment a year or so ago. Through some sort of refinancing, he managed to get the monthly payment down from $600 to about $400, but extended the loan for two years longer than the original term. Even the quickest math showed he’d cost himself several thousand dollars in the long run. When it’s all said and done I think he’s going to end up having paid $40k+ for a car with a sticker price between $15k-$20k.
I'm a retired CPA(since 1993?)I was going down the road one day with some co-workers (we didn't have anything to talk about) and I asked "What do people think when they walk into a business for people that can't handle money" and one of my coworkers (UT Grad) said "my brother is one of them. He says 'just tell me what I can get today'". So that was why I wrote that, honestly.