The great lie is, of course, that the 1946 Frank Capra film Its a Wonderful Life is an uplifting tale of kindness rewarded by kindness, and that true riches come from friendship with a bunch of ****ing morons who dont know how banks work. For some asinine reason weve agreed to let this movie into our homes every holiday to lie to us and make us feel good that were trapped in the unending cycle of alienation, remorse, and eventual death that is this thing we call we life. If George Bailey can overcome his realization that his life is pointless and he is an ant just waiting to be ground into cosmic dust by the inevitable march of time by singing songs with his idiot friends, then surely we can make it through one ******n family dinner, Janet, just hold it together for once will you?
Its a Wonderful Life bombed when it was released in 1946 because 1946 people were made of iron forged in the blood fires of their enemies. They didnt need the comforting pap of a god who would send a ****ty, second-rate angel to trick you into accepting your lot as a drudge. But over time we have decided to embrace Its a Wonderful Life and have become complicit in its lie that friendship and children you cant afford are enough to stem the unending horror of existence. But really Its a Wonderful Life is a turd movie meant to convince you to stay in your dumb hick town and give up on your dreams. Its a **** volcano spewing poisonous diarrhea lava all over the middle class aspirations of America.
Throughout his life, from childhood on, we see that the only desire George Bailey has is to leave Bedford Falls and travel the world and also build things. George wants to do something big, something important, and his dad immediately starts discouraging him, preferring him to stay at home and run their ****ty savings and loan company. Mary, the girl who loves George unconditionally for wholly unknown reasons, also wishes for George to stay in town, because no one actually supports his dream of upward mobility self-betterment.
This is the incipient lie at the heart of this movieno one actually wants George to be happy on his own terms. The longer George stays in Bedford Falls the more miserable he becomesnot even Marys devotion or his brood of wiener kids can alleviate his depression and despondency. The message of Its a Wonderful Life is not that friendship is magic, its that decent people stay in their lane and remain miserable so that their ****ed friends can keep being irresponsible leeches who survive on the misery of the George Baileys of the world.