And likewise, you don't need to have women out here provoking men and falling back on the chivalrous "I'm a woman, you can't hit me" nonsense. The lesson for both genders should be to keep your hands to yourself, not this one sided "a man should never hit a woman". That gets too many men hurt because they don't defend themselves and too many women hurt because they think they have the power to assault a man and expect him to just stand there and take it.
Alcohol impaired both of their judgements, so both need to suck it up. And both need to keep their hands to themselves.