Correct, had no idea it is his actual name. I'm officially unbothered. Also unpuzzled bc I was so surprised creekdipper would do that. Now I know they didn't. My bad.
Understood, and I actually appreciate your sensitivity toward what you thought was someone using an ethnic slur and calling attention to it. That was not the intent (after all, his preferred nickname is just as "ethnic"), but it most definitely was used because he evidently doesn't like it. Yes, kind of petty, especially since he'll never see our comments, but just reacting in a way consistent with his history of disrespecting others, particularly Pat Summitt.
I almost never use the nickname "Geno" because (to me) that implies a certain degree of familiarity and respect for his character. Likewise, I rarely use "Jeff" for Walz, choosing to use their last names in both cases. But Luigi is by far the worst offender. And, despite what some have posted, it has nothing to do with his success. If Tara had 11 championships, I'd be happy for her. But then, she doesn't have his long history of publicly deliberately choosing to insult his peers and their fan bases, demonstrating a lack of moral character, and shamelessly self-promoting himself at every turn (which he continues to do).
Public figures often go by nicknames (our history is filled with examples) for their own reasons. "Beto" O'Rourke is actually Robert Francis O'Rourke; "Bobby" Jindal's name is Piyush; Nikki Haley's first name is Nimrata, reflecting her Indian heritage; Ted Cruz is Raphael Edward Cruz. Their motivations for choosing their "public" identity may be political, professional, or personal. None of their choices bother me, nor does "Geno" being used in place of "Luigi." Maybe it's another case of a younger sibling who had trouble pronouncing the given name as a child and the nikname stuck. There are common examples of that, too.
Just to be clear, I admire the Auriemma family backstory. Years ago, I saw a feature on him showing his early childhood growing up without a lot of economic means before the family immigrated to the U.S. it's actually a great American story, and one can admire his efforts in building the Connecticut juggernaut without admiring the man's character. His vulgarity and casual swearing on a national tv profile along with his constant needling of his peers with obvious glee and then laughing it off with "I'm from Philly" remarks instantly did it for me. His lame excuses about it all being about just promoting a rivalry for the good of the game were exposed by his childish dispecting of Parker. And despite his fans sometimes saying that he's "mellowed" and his occasional ruminations about maybe going too far at times, he still has to constantly remind everyone how many titles he has, how everyone would be doing it if it were easy, yada yada. The guy can't help himself...it's ingrained in his nature.
So I don't like to refer to him as "Geno" for the same reason I rarely use "UConn" as long as he's there. It's a small sign of contempt and disdain for him...not for his coaching accomplishments.
But to avoid any misconceptions over using his actual name and giving VolNation a black eye, I'll return to using "Auriemma." Which is showing a heck of a lot more consideration than he ever gave Pat in their heyday.