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Like my sister who is 23, has never had a job, and is desperately trying to latch on to a man to take care of her.
Quite the free thinker!
Free thinking that working 40 hours a week is a pretty stupid concept. 40+ hours of mostly meaningless busy work. Yikes and we wonder why depression is so rampant.
Im not really sure which one I am, so maybe someone can give some insight. I was born in 88, Ill be 30 in September.
Now, a few personal details...
I own a locksmith business, a trade that is definitely overlooked and rarely suggested as a lucrative profession by teachers, counselors, etc.. Many are surprised when they find out I make 6 figures a year fixing locks. Obviously I work long, long hours. But thats just part of it, being on call rescuing folks. But I choose to do that so that my family can have a good life.
My wife is just a few months younger than I am. Shes a stay at home mom, which is the point Im getting to. Our son is so sharp. Walking at 11 months, throwing a basketball into a childs goal. Talking, a lot. Eats anything and everything. All around, just gets a ton of attention and nurturing. I think this is where society has gone wrong. Mothers need to be at home with their children, raising them, teaching them right from wrong. What are your thoughts?
Are both parents having to work the real issue with todays society?
Heres a picture from our Memorial Day vacation at Disney. We took him for his 1st birthday and we had a blast!
My kids ate anything I put in front of them at 11 months old. We were pretty full of ourselves thinking how great our kids eat....Then around 2 years old it just stopped out of the blue and dinner time became the age old struggle of parents forcing their kids to finish their broccoli.
But to your point about stay at home moms... I agree somewhat. I do think the push for dual incomes of the 80s eventually became a burden on family. Then you had a parents overcompensating 90s and even into today with helicopter parenting and being so involved their kids were never allowed to fail. This has created a generation of young adults with high anxiety when faced with adversity.
Now I defend Millennials mostly because every generation complains about the younger one. There is no perfect generation of people. There are human traits that run through us all and the only difference is the world around us. Its a dumb thing to complain about.
And for the record you do fall into the Millenial category for whatever that matters to you.
Yea, I mean I guess technically I am a Millenial. Im just not the stereotypical type thats out protesting because the election didnt go my way or demanding free stuff from people who actually worked for it. The term Millennial is definitely used in a negative fashion.
And incorrectly. I dont think it was JUST Millenials that were doing the things of which you mentioned. Every generation has had its protestors. Older generations frowned on protesting against the Vietnam War or for Civil Rights or even as far back as taxation without representation but history proves them right more often than not.
When I hear someone complaining about Millenials it is generally about them being self absorbed and/entitled and unable to think critically. Which is all laughable since studies show Millenials tend to be more empathetic, more likely to volunteer and also more entrepreneurial (such as yourself).
I remember listing to stories from my grandparents about growing up.
One story from my grandmother that always stood out to me was the size of her family and how she said her older sister basically was charged with raising the children. Her mother was constantly working the farm or cooking meals for the family. The whole family had their chores and work was something they did from the day they were old enough.
A couple things from my grandfather told that always stood out was that he talked about the depression and how it wasn't a big deal around east Tennessee. He said they were farmers and traded for whatever goods they needed. They worked their land, raised there animals and food. He would talk about family members that were in Michigan and Illinois that had to pack up their families and come back here to survive.
He also told how he he was so tired of working the farm that he begged his mother to let him early enlist at age 17 in the army for WWII. That always blew my mind that a person would sign up for war to get off the farm. Thank God the war was basically won by the time he got in.
So, I told you that to tell you this. The generations after that generation started doing everything for their children because they either didnt want them to have to live like they did or were well off enough not to require it. I believe people aren't prepared for work and stress like our past generations.
I think this is where the entitlement culture began. The whole I want what I want, the way I want it mentality was born.
Im not really sure which one I am, so maybe someone can give some insight. I was born in 88, Ill be 30 in September.
Now, a few personal details...
I own a locksmith business, a trade that is definitely overlooked and rarely suggested as a lucrative profession by teachers, counselors, etc.. Many are surprised when they find out I make 6 figures a year fixing locks. Obviously I work long, long hours. But thats just part of it, being on call rescuing folks. But I choose to do that so that my family can have a good life.
My wife is just a few months younger than I am. Shes a stay at home mom, which is the point Im getting to. Our son is so sharp. He was walking at 11 months, throwing a basketball into a childs goal. Talking, a lot. Eats anything and everything. All around, just gets a ton of attention and nurturing. I think this is where society has gone wrong. Mothers need to be at home with their children, raising them, teaching them right from wrong. What are your thoughts?
Are both parents having to work the real issue with todays society?
Heres a picture from our Memorial Day vacation at Disney. We took him for his 1st birthday and we had a blast!
Millennials should either be split up into two categories or put old Millennials back into Gen X.
The start of the generation is supposedly early 80s, ending in the late 90s or early 2000s. People born in 1980 are much different, IMO, than people born in 1997. Early 80s births tend to have more Gen X characteristics.
Also, there is a subset of the Millennial generation that are "digital natives;" i.e., they have never, for all intents and purposes, lived without the internet and/or smartphones.
Every generation has had its protestors. Older generations frowned on protesting against the Vietnam War or for Civil Rights or even as far back as taxation without representation but history proves them right more often than not.
There are exceptions to all things. The worst mellennials are the low income workers. I would rather higher a 50 year old and teach them the computer programs we use (over 3 weeks) than higher a millennial who can figure it out in a day but text on there phone instead. You can tell them no phones 100 times but they are always pulling it out of their pocket like an addiction and using it.
The problem with lower wage millennials is that you will get 2 good weeks from them and then they are done/board/asking for a raise. Its like clockwork.