Official Gramps' Memorial Eternal OT Thread

Throwing this out there as a shot in the dark to all our VN lawyers and pretend lawyers. I have a cousin in a bad marriage, they've been separated for a few months. The divorce is coming but the husband is dragging his feet on filing, even though he initiated it. She left the house even though she had legal right to stay until things are settled and is back living with my aunt and uncle. Come to find out when my cousin is going to an important doctor's appointment she found out that the husband removed her from his health insurance. Not sure how much this context matters legally but he was a controlling and traditional dude that wanted her to be stay at home and not work, she was working full time until he made it clear that's what he wanted and she quit and got on his plan.

In my preliminary research it appears that it's certainly illegal to drop the spouse from the coverage during divorce proceedings, however since the husband is taking his sweet time with everything he hasn't filed yet. So technically it looks like he's in the clear, but i can't imagine a judge would look very kindly on that behavior if it came to it? Just wondering if the juice is worth the squeeze here, she's got some major medical appointments that would not be feasible to pay out of pocket. She is getting zero communication back from him and his lawyer.

What's the play here?

I can’t give the opinion of an attorney since I’m not one, but from a “loving and concerned cousin” viewpoint, I’d go with whipping his ass as a motivational tool. That’s just me though.
 
Throwing this out there as a shot in the dark to all our VN lawyers and pretend lawyers. I have a cousin in a bad marriage, they've been separated for a few months. The divorce is coming but the husband is dragging his feet on filing, even though he initiated it. She left the house even though she had legal right to stay until things are settled and is back living with my aunt and uncle. Come to find out when my cousin is going to an important doctor's appointment she found out that the husband removed her from his health insurance. Not sure how much this context matters legally but he was a controlling and traditional dude that wanted her to be stay at home and not work, she was working full time until he made it clear that's what he wanted and she quit and got on his plan.

In my preliminary research it appears that it's certainly illegal to drop the spouse from the coverage during divorce proceedings, however since the husband is taking his sweet time with everything he hasn't filed yet. So technically it looks like he's in the clear, but i can't imagine a judge would look very kindly on that behavior if it came to it? Just wondering if the juice is worth the squeeze here, she's got some major medical appointments that would not be feasible to pay out of pocket. She is getting zero communication back from him and his lawyer.

What's the play here?
Not a lawyer either but in TX that isn’t lawful. The legal spouse, separated or not, is primary beneficiary on all death benefits unless they sign a decree waiving those rights.
 
Not a lawyer either but in TX that isn’t lawful. The legal spouse, separated or not, is primary beneficiary on all death benefits unless they sign a decree waiving those rights.
I looked up the particular statute in the state and unless I'm missing something (which i certainly could be) it seemed like it did not address dropping spouse coverage before the divorce was filed, only if the divorce was already in process (systematically).
 

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