question about homosexuality

in your opinion are the gay people born that way or do they make a choice to be gay?

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Billy Costigan

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in your opinion - do you think the gay people are born that way or do you think they just make a choice to be that way?
 
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Vast majority are born that way. The minority who choose a gay lifestyle are akin to those whom are born gay and choose to be straight. I think they all deserve equal rights.
 
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Did you like guys Billy when you were born or did you decide to like guys later in life?
 
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This is a serious statement - I just don't understand how if you're a dude and you have a penis in front of you and a vagina in front of you that you would pick the penis.
 
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Billy Costigan said:
This is a serious statement - I just don't understand how if you're a dude and you have a penis in front of you and a vagina in front of you that you would pick the penis.
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That's because your brain is hard-wired for vag. Homosexuals' are not.

With all of the mental abnormalities like ADD, Tourette's, Asperger's, etc., is it really out of the realm of possibility that homosexuals' brains are just not hard-wired the same way heteros' are?
 
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Billy Costigan said:
This is a serious statement - I just don't understand how if you're a dude and you have a penis in front of you and a vagina in front of you that you would pick the penis.
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great point BC

and made me laugh at billy sitting there trying to choose with a ? in a cloud above his head
 
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I don't buy you are born that way. All kids are different. My guess is some try it and roll that way, and some try it and say hey... vagina is far superior than penis for me. That's the way to go for me.

CHOICE
 
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Born gay. Cannot scientifically prove it yet, but 100% sure. I think the percentage of those who choose a homosexual 'lifestyle' is very, very small.
 
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I believe some people are born attracted to the same sex while most are born attracted to the opposite sex. But for both hetero- and homosexuals, a choice is inevitably made whether to act upon your urges and desires. My vote was for born that way because I do believe they are born attracted to the same sex. But I also believe they choose to act on their urges. I don't believe they are wrong making that decision, but I point it out because I believe in personal responsibility.

I could beat the war drum, but I've made my feelings supporting gay rights known in other threads. My question to those who think it is nothing more than choice is why? Why would anyone choose to open themselves up to the bigotry that comes with being homosexual? I'm not accusing anyone here of being a bigot, but watch or read the news and you will see they are targets for people who disagree with their lifestyle. Who would choose to walk that road?
 
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Weezer said:
I believe some people are born attracted to the same sex while most are born attracted to the opposite sex. But for both hetero- and homosexuals, a choice is inevitably made whether to act upon your urges and desires. My vote was for born that way because I do believe they are born attracted to the same sex. But I also believe they choose to act on their urges. I don't believe they are wrong making that decision, but I point it out because I believe in personal responsibility.

I could beat the war drum, but I've made my feelings supporting gay rights known in other threads. My question to those who think it is nothing more than choice is why? Why would anyone choose to open themselves up to the bigotry that comes with being homosexual? I'm not accusing anyone here of being a bigot, but watch or read the news and you will see they are targets for people who disagree with their lifestyle. Who would choose to walk that road?
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I think you make a couple of very good points here. First, I completely agree that there is a choice in whether we act on inherent sexuality/attractions, or decide on celibacy, or 'force' a heterosexual relationship in an attempt to be 'normal' (which I feel will often end up bringing a lot of pain on the partner).

I think your other point in regards to why someone would choose to lead a life subject to bigotry and hate cannot be overstated. It just does not make sense. Recent studies have shown gay teens are 2 to 6 times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual counterparts - it's not always an easy thing to live with.
 
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I could care less if one is gay.

The extremely, dramatic and feminine gay guys are too much though. Is that part necessary?
 
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I've never had the desire to **** a man. If you have and have chosen against the desire you might have reason to believe it's a choice.
 
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