It's very disrespectful to call a coach by his first name. I would not allow my dugout to do it if I am a coach and there is nothing wrong with saying for example to call me Coach Vitello. I am assuming what his is saying just like you are assuming he said something else and the other poster saying racial slur. NOBODY KNOWS WHAT HE SAID BACK so you are making just as big an assumption in him not acting like an adult. It's not as bad as accusing someone throwing a slur but it is still the same logic. The post did not know of a slur being said and you do not know if Tony was saying something becoming of an adult or not.