Not arguing the rule verbiage. Not arguing the teachings of moving your feet either, that’s good advice. Just don’t like the rule. It’s the leagues attempt to give parameters (improper ones) to be able to better judge a foul vs not, because evvvvvvverythings controversial so long as someone has an opinion, good one or not.
This scenario is akin to an offensive lineman hands on the shoulder pads or the chest pads. Ones a hold and one isn’t, respectively, though if you were to ask me I would say you could definitely hold someone by their chest pads and put your hands on their shoulder pads without holding them.
The rule sucks. Nobody “fouled” anyone on that play that had an impact on the outcome of the play.
Also, I would not have wanted to play pickup sports with you as a kid.