SkidsisVFL
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Team Maxim #25: Keep everlastingly on the job.
Warning, I get a bit emotional:
This one is especially personal for me, and since it falls on the right day, it's only fitting I discuss it more in-depth. Many years ago, when I was a little tyke, my father worked nights in Johnson City. He would return home to Kingsport early the next morning, sit on the couch, and be asleep within moments. I still remember the day he didn't. My mom called the house to alert my sisters and I that my father had been in a car wreck and was being airlifted to Holston Valley hospital. He had broken bones, his face had been hit with the airbag and he had to have his pelvic bone restructured. Dad had fallen asleep at the wheel between the Gray and Eastern Star exits, crossed the median into the wrong lane of traffic and hit the back wheels of a tractor trailer. The fact that he survived and--after a year of rehab--was able to walk unassisted again was nothing short of a miracle. All was not well, though. Soon after he was rehabbed, we found that he was having trouble telling time and doing simple math. After a few years of noticeable mental deterioration, we took him to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN for evaluation. He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's Disease. Needless to say, nothing was the same. Soon, he was scarce able to string words together and needed assistance dressing, eating, bathing, etc. That's where mom and I excelled. Throughout middle school and most of high school, I was majorly responsible for caring for dad as I was trying to grow myself. At times, it was hard emotionally having to deal with the wild emotions and hormones of being a teenager while caring for someone who desperately wanted to function normally. If I did not "keep everlastingly on the job" at hand, I would not have made it through. But I did. And I try to live each day in a way that would make my father proud. He passed away 4 years ago today and I'm still not used to it. It took a while, but I'm finally comfortable with telling my story, because it is MY story, and I am not in the business of denying a critical part of my life being on record. It just goes to show, you never know what will happen in life and to be prepared for anything, good or bad. Both are the essence of life.
RIP Stephen W Skidmore, Sr. May 31, 1961-August 11, 2010
(20 days left. Go damn VOLS.)
Team Maxim #25: Keep everlastingly on the job.
Warning, I get a bit emotional:
This one is especially personal for me, and since it falls on the right day, it's only fitting I discuss it more in-depth. Many years ago, when I was a little tyke, my father worked nights in Johnson City. He would return home to Kingsport early the next morning, sit on the couch, and be asleep within moments. I still remember the day he didn't. My mom called the house to alert my sisters and I that my father had been in a car wreck and was being airlifted to Holston Valley hospital. He had broken bones, his face had been hit with the airbag and he had to have his pelvic bone restructured. Dad had fallen asleep at the wheel between the Gray and Eastern Star exits, crossed the median into the wrong lane of traffic and hit the back wheels of a tractor trailer. The fact that he survived and--after a year of rehab--was able to walk unassisted again was nothing short of a miracle. All was not well, though. Soon after he was rehabbed, we found that he was having trouble telling time and doing simple math. After a few years of noticeable mental deterioration, we took him to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN for evaluation. He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's Disease. Needless to say, nothing was the same. Soon, he was scarce able to string words together and needed assistance dressing, eating, bathing, etc. That's where mom and I excelled. Throughout middle school and most of high school, I was majorly responsible for caring for dad as I was trying to grow myself. At times, it was hard emotionally having to deal with the wild emotions and hormones of being a teenager while caring for someone who desperately wanted to function normally. If I did not "keep everlastingly on the job" at hand, I would not have made it through. But I did. And I try to live each day in a way that would make my father proud. He passed away 4 years ago today and I'm still not used to it. It took a while, but I'm finally comfortable with telling my story, because it is MY story, and I am not in the business of denying a critical part of my life being on record. It just goes to show, you never know what will happen in life and to be prepared for anything, good or bad. Both are the essence of life.
RIP Stephen W Skidmore, Sr. May 31, 1961-August 11, 2010
(20 days left. Go damn VOLS.)
Team Maxim #25: Keep everlastingly on the job.
Warning, I get a bit emotional:
This one is especially personal for me, and since it falls on the right day, it's only fitting I discuss it more in-depth. Many years ago, when I was a little tyke, my father worked nights in Johnson City. He would return home to Kingsport early the next morning, sit on the couch, and be asleep within moments. I still remember the day he didn't. My mom called the house to alert my sisters and I that my father had been in a car wreck and was being airlifted to Holston Valley hospital. He had broken bones, his face had been hit with the airbag and he had to have his pelvic bone restructured. Dad had fallen asleep at the wheel between the Gray and Eastern Star exits, crossed the median into the wrong lane of traffic and hit the back wheels of a tractor trailer. The fact that he survived and--after a year of rehab--was able to walk unassisted again was nothing short of a miracle. All was not well, though. Soon after he was rehabbed, we found that he was having trouble telling time and doing simple math. After a few years of noticeable mental deterioration, we took him to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN for evaluation. He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's Disease. Needless to say, nothing was the same. Soon, he was scarce able to string words together and needed assistance dressing, eating, bathing, etc. That's where mom and I excelled. Throughout middle school and most of high school, I was majorly responsible for caring for dad as I was trying to grow myself. At times, it was hard emotionally having to deal with the wild emotions and hormones of being a teenager while caring for someone who desperately wanted to function normally. If I did not "keep everlastingly on the job" at hand, I would not have made it through. But I did. And I try to live each day in a way that would make my father proud. He passed away 4 years ago today and I'm still not used to it. It took a while, but I'm finally comfortable with telling my story, because it is MY story, and I am not in the business of denying a critical part of my life being on record. It just goes to show, you never know what will happen in life and to be prepared for anything, good or bad. Both are the essence of life.
RIP Stephen W Skidmore, Sr. May 31, 1961-August 11, 2010
(20 days left. Go damn VOLS.)
Your Dad is 8 months older than me and i can relate. Your thread is awsome and sounds like you are too...good man...good form. GO DAMN VOLS!Team Maxim #25: Keep everlastingly on the job.
Warning, I get a bit emotional:
This one is especially personal for me, and since it falls on the right day, it's only fitting I discuss it more in-depth. Many years ago, when I was a little tyke, my father worked nights in Johnson City. He would return home to Kingsport early the next morning, sit on the couch, and be asleep within moments. I still remember the day he didn't. My mom called the house to alert my sisters and I that my father had been in a car wreck and was being airlifted to Holston Valley hospital. He had broken bones, his face had been hit with the airbag and he had to have his pelvic bone restructured. Dad had fallen asleep at the wheel between the Gray and Eastern Star exits, crossed the median into the wrong lane of traffic and hit the back wheels of a tractor trailer. The fact that he survived and--after a year of rehab--was able to walk unassisted again was nothing short of a miracle. All was not well, though. Soon after he was rehabbed, we found that he was having trouble telling time and doing simple math. After a few years of noticeable mental deterioration, we took him to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN for evaluation. He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's Disease. Needless to say, nothing was the same. Soon, he was scarce able to string words together and needed assistance dressing, eating, bathing, etc. That's where mom and I excelled. Throughout middle school and most of high school, I was majorly responsible for caring for dad as I was trying to grow myself. At times, it was hard emotionally having to deal with the wild emotions and hormones of being a teenager while caring for someone who desperately wanted to function normally. If I did not "keep everlastingly on the job" at hand, I would not have made it through. But I did. And I try to live each day in a way that would make my father proud. He passed away 4 years ago today and I'm still not used to it. It took a while, but I'm finally comfortable with telling my story, because it is MY story, and I am not in the business of denying a critical part of my life being on record. It just goes to show, you never know what will happen in life and to be prepared for anything, good or bad. Both are the essence of life.
RIP Stephen W Skidmore, Sr. May 31, 1961-August 11, 2010
(20 days left. Go damn VOLS.)