Yeah, it was... interesting.
I didn't grow up in this house, so it wasn't the same as for tnuhcvols, but it was still a shock. Luckily (not really luckily, because I'd rather that she had her original sharp mind), she has mostly forgotten the house that she lived in from (I think) ~1976 to 2009, and now "home" means the house that she grew up in from when she was born in 1927 until she married and moved away in 1945 at age 18. So I don't expect her to ask me how her house on Shady Grove is doing, and (after I remind her that it was sold) what the new owners are doing with it. Because this house no longer exists in her memory, meaning that for her, it doesn't exist at all.
Personal history is such an ephemeral thing! If I weren't around, and when she died, leaving no parents, husband, siblings, kids, and nothing that hit the newspapers, where does that life, and its memories go? If all her contemporaries and friends were gone as well (which is mostly the case), it's as if she never lived at all. Do we leave no footprint on this world?
And yet, we all know (or believe, or at least hope) that we do leave some sort of mark on the world, and on people around us, even when we're not aware of it. There was that guy that stopped that time when we were trying to change a tire, so that we could make our meeting, and that lady who calmly picked up our spilled groceries when our kid had a meltdown in the parking lot, and let us go ahead and cook dinner that night.
We NEVER know the impact that we leave on others as we go about our daily lives, pushing our glasses back up our noses, stepping out of line while (again) trying to find our keys, standing back to let someone go ahead through the door.[/QUOTE
The reply that I had, was long winded (probably prophetic, lol).... I’m so sorry.