We have been thinking about it. For a while. Actually, it's the most wonderful thing ever. This feels like a real family to me. I have never felt like I had a real family even from childhood. We were just a bunch of people who lived in the same house, each with individual goals and directions. Not now. We have common goals, common dreams. We both have a love and dedication to not only each other, but to the family. I have been married before, but the feeling of family wasn't there. It's life as we both want it to be. It isn't perfect, but it's perfect for us.