Stuff.
I am on the ARC committee in my sub. Neighbor, who is the HOA president, put up a lean-to carport. No ARC review. Sub is going nuts... folks want to hang him high. I have been sitting back to see where I need to try to help. No one asked me to participate... so the VP called me to inform me they were going after him with lawyers. I said... wait, let me talk to the guy and see if I can get him to comply. No one wanted that... but I said I was going to do it any. Well, the is out of town so could not talk to him. I met wit 2 others in the ARC, and we generated a list of action the owner needed to respond to and we could help him. That pissed off the folks that ware out to get him. The VP calls me and started telling me I was Kate to the party and I need to back off.
Well... I did not realize I could still get pissed off. He raised his voice to me and told me to list and stop talking. I blew a gasket, and went off on home... every 4 letter word I knew. Sometime later, he agreed to let me try to convince this guy to cooperate. I calmed down.., then another lady called and told me I was full of it to try this. Awe me.., I told both of them to take me off the committee... but I was going to try to rationalize with the guy to get in line with our codes.
Long story... but HOAs are fawked up... too many agendas.
tkdnr!!!!