So in essence, she was a b**ch.
It is amazing to me how quickly men turn into white knights and will believe any story that involves a woman being allegedly attacked.
I think the kicker here was "Veteran" more than woman.
I respect veterans, have many uncles and cousins who served in my family, but it in no way means they can't be *******s or disrespectful themselves just because they served, in fact many join young because they ARE *******s and disrespectful.
I find it much smarter to respect people for their behavior instead of their jobs or titles.