And that's a very important discussion to have. The problem is that the artificial 'sides' of the discussion are both so dead-set on their specific way being right that we can't put our heads together and figure out a mutually beneficial way moving forward.
Much to the disbelief of some people here, I hate that my children rely on Medicaid and I want them to be off of it ASAP. But the moment we cross that economic red line, my family will have $10,000+ more in expenses a year on top of the medical mess I've created for us. We don't have cable. We have the cheapest wireless plan we can live with. Neither of my kids have a cell phone and won't for the foreseeable future. There's one TV in the house, and it's 10 years old.
And the message that I wish I could leave them with is that I don't want their money, We're finally in a position where we're paying down the $9k in medical debt from when we lived in Mississippi, plus credit card debt we accrued trying to make sure the kids had food during the lean years. Then we can start saving and investing. But the moment I mention the kids are on Medicaid, something we're ashamed of, I'm a leftist who wants money I didn't earn. No. I just want the climb back up to be a little less steep, and my kids to not suffer because I'm too ill to work a second job.
I harbor no ill will towards anyone here. Not at all. Just frustration at times.
this is what I am facing. really about 5k a year thanks to ACA. I have kept track.
Heres the thing. I am healthy-ish (I need two knee replacements, elbow, and ankle surgeries). I "can't" afford them due to the cost increases under ACA. I can but it kills any chance of buying a house.
I feel for you. I really do. But the weight of society is sinking me, and many in my situation.
No one my age talks about it, because they never look at the numbers. But the numbers have screwed me. and thats not even taking into account all the other welfare I am paying for with my taxes.
Taxes don't hurt the rich. they never will. but they cripple those like me. those who like you mentioned are just "rich" enough where I qualify for nothing. and I am too "healthy" to qualify for any benefits. This is my eighth year in Atlanta. for the first 3.5 I was under the poverty level for Atlanta. I have worked my way up. I just want a chance to take care of myself, hopefully get a family that I can take care of. But I am cut back at EVERY corner by the government and ALL these effing programs that only take and take and take and give nothing to those like me.
until those like me, and honestly those worse than me, because thankfully I have been smart, are actually addressed it is too much. Your frustration is shared, and as much as it kills me to say it, you have no high ground in this argument.
i know I have ranted like this before, and it kills me, but I have to vent. Believe me this is one of the things I struggle with the most. I pray constantly on it, and have found no answers I like. But I can't help but sit here and think, what could I do with a 40% bigger pay check (Fed and GA taxes). what could someone like you do? Probably doesn't get you there. But I got to think its just as viable of a blanket option as what we have now. and it doesn't screw everyone over.