I'll never, ever relate to adult fans who get angry at a kid for changing schools -- so angry that they actively dislike them and actually put out into the universe that they hope the kid fails at the new school. That just blows my mind. I mean, seriously?????
I can never think of college-age people as anything but newbies to early adulthood, just starting out, and in the early years of learning how to make the best choices for themselves. Many college-age students put on a front like they're all cool and smart and ready to be adults, but in reality, most are not. They may look like grown-ups, but they're not. Many are going to make a few dumb decisions along the way to the actual adulthood that begins once they have careers and financial responsibilities of their own.
In my mind, these not-quite-ready-for-adulthood college-age students shouldn't even have the ability, no matter WHAT decisions they make, to make real adults angry. Disappointed? Sure. But feeling actual anger toward them for changing schools and then daring to be excited about their new team? That's just never going to be something this old bird will do. I wish them ALL well for the rest of their lives.
I can never think of college-age people as anything but newbies to early adulthood, just starting out, and in the early years of learning how to make the best choices for themselves. Many college-age students put on a front like they're all cool and smart and ready to be adults, but in reality, most are not. They may look like grown-ups, but they're not. Many are going to make a few dumb decisions along the way to the actual adulthood that begins once they have careers and financial responsibilities of their own.
In my mind, these not-quite-ready-for-adulthood college-age students shouldn't even have the ability, no matter WHAT decisions they make, to make real adults angry. Disappointed? Sure. But feeling actual anger toward them for changing schools and then daring to be excited about their new team? That's just never going to be something this old bird will do. I wish them ALL well for the rest of their lives.