Obviously he doesn’t think his 17-18 yo son has the life experience to make such a huge life decision without guidance from his family. If your 17 yo daughter asked you to sign some papers to allow her to marry some douchebag like Will Wade would you sign them. Of course not. If one of these used car salesman types had convinced your son to come play for him you shouldn’t just say you gotta live your life - go for it. At least you wouldn’t if you were a decent father. A good father would help his son vet the slimeballs out and help him determine the quality coaches for him to play for.Why try to force your kid into to your agenda? Gotta let the kid live his own life and do what's best for him