Isn't it possible that Urban told him something along the lines of...
"I'm dissapointed that you committed to FSU before we even had a chance to talk. Here's my situation....
Can I ask you to just give it a week to think about it based on our long relationship, and not rush into anything, can you give me that much?"
I would be suprised if Elam didn't agree to that, what's he going to do, tell him to get bent after all these years? Doesn't NECESSARILLY mean that he's decided against FSU.
Now the UGA stuff and so on, who knows. But I tend to cut these kids a little slack, in this process they are going against grown-ass men who are at the pinnacle of a profession requiring them to be master salesmen and spin doctors. It's hardly a fair match when these kids are faced up with the Coleys, Orgerons, etc of the world.
Guys which, for the most part, escape scrutiny from the fans and media, at least compared to the kids.
Obviously, it could be handled better, but I wouldn't hand $15,000 to a 17-year old and trust him to negotiate a new car purchase, he would get eaten alive by any random car salesman.
And yet we expect them to handle themselves perfectly faced with guys who are several magnitudes more effective and relentless than any car salesman. And largely less restricted by the process than a car salesman.
So unless they're clearly bad kids, I tend to cut them some slack.
Thanks very much for this board guys, I've been reading it daily.