I dont see how any loved ones can be left behind without emotional burdens. Ive seen the toll it takes on surviving families first hand. Its just awful.
Agreed. I could have interpreted posts wrong, but wanted to have the definition of selfish. As part of that, I was just saying IF it was for the benefit of others with no harm or repercussions, then it wouldnt be selfish. Admittedly, in my mind I cant envision that scenario.
Again, though, tragic situation, very very heartbreaking for his daughter (and others). Hopefully this is a reminder to anyone who needs to hear it that you are valued, loved, and could not be replaced!!