I don't have a problem with Andy. He is whiney, but he's still one of the cooler people in the house. He's also played a very good social game.
Does anyone watch the live feeds?
My auntie watches the live feed. She was the one that told me about this.
'Big Brother': Spencer Jokes About Child Pornography
He's disgusting.
I have a pretty messed up sense of humor. Talking about b**ting of to child porn, 3-4 year olds to be exact, crosses a line. It's not funny, it's tasteless, and basically shows his ignorance. Maybe he is a good dude, but that's pretty uncalled for. And this is coming from a dude that jokes about some weird shizz.
I agree with everything you say. I'm saying it's twisted, but what I am also saying is maybe he's twisted for reasons that maybe we should have sympathy for, rather than making him into a villain. Who knows?
I must add, I worked with troubled youth in college, and sexual abuse is a lot more common than I had realized, and I was amazed at the ways it impacted these kids. Fantasies about feces, etc.
See but that is my issue, and I know everyone handles things differently and are affected in different ways. I had a childhood that was a real life nightmare, and I don't have those thoughts or turn to a life of crime or whatever. So it kinda drives me crazy when people use that as an excuse when they do something bad. Now I had severe anger issues until I was 25, but never anything twisted. As I said I know people are affected by things in very different ways. But I never got counseling or any form of help, I just made that fuel me to be a better person. So it's hard for me to understand how people use that as an excuse.
Edit: I wanna clarify I'm talking about grown men and women acting foolish and using that as an excuse, not children.
I agree that the individual shouldn't look to it as an excuse. The reason I can still find sympathy for them is that people are wired to respond to events in a variety of ways. For instance, my friend has a lot of siblings with Mommy-issues. One time she lost her mind and violently beat him with a shoe in front of everyone when he was like 9. He doesn't have any problems with his Mom, but a few of his siblings do, and that event negatively affected them a lot more than it did him. He didn't even realize his siblings would consider their Mom a "bad Mom" until they discussed it as adults.