hog88
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Now, I never said "ours" was 50/50. Here's a funny twist on that kind of thing. Several years ago when fortunes were different - my wife was on active duty and doing pretty well as a Commander and then Captain, she said I should get my own bank account and credit card. I came from the kind of family where everything was joint, but for years she had her own credit card and bank account in addition to the joint ones. I was a bit annoyed that I had a limited retirement income at the time and that the nice income I had from a few years had evaporated - and I didn't spend it; so I did just what she suggested. I have a nice bank account and limited credit card expense which gets paid in full every month, and recently she brought up the "I don't even know how much you have or have access to it if something happened to you." Oh, and she conveniently forgot the separate accounts were her idea. Maybe the best idea she ever had in my opinion.
We have our personal accounts and a joint account that we dump money in for the bills. Works pretty good except I end up paying for almost everything except our monthlies out of my money. No telling what she's saved up.