I still don't get it.
If the family of a prospect (or the prospect) uses race to judge the credibility of a coach, should the school be complicit in this action?
I say he** no! We need to hire coaches based on character and ability regardless of race.
If we expose our kids to high-character leadership maybe the race issue can be mitigated. Maybe the change in the kid can create a positive change in the kid's family. That might be better than another championship season.
I don't argue with your position of hiring high character (and coaches with a reputation for winning) so let's be clear on that.
When you say:
"I still don't get it.
If the family of a prospect (or the prospect) uses race to judge the credibility of a coach, should the school be complicit in this action?"
You're very likely 100% right, YOU DON"T GET IT because you haven't lived the life of a minority kid. Nor endured the near daily overt and covert reminders that you're "
something" different and "not" like "us" and inferior to boot.
When I lived in the Southwestern states years ago, I worked with Native Americans, Mexicans, African-Americans, and a very few Asian-Americans. I saw front and center the comments made to them by other kids and some teachers as well. Especially when they figured they were in an environment of like-minded people where their comments were "safe." I saw the looks they got. I saw how often when provoked and clearly reacting defensively after being hit, spit on, having things thrown at them, they were the ones considered at fault and disciplined or suspended from school. The White kids got off free repeatedly. I listened to minority kids' many stories. Including how their parents were treated. One story I know happened but didn't see it all unfold was: A driver went through a stop sign and hit the car. The student's baby sister was injured. The father was crying to trying to comfort both his wife and child. The police arrived, the other driver ran up and pointed at the father. The cops ran over, threw him to the ground, handcuffed him. In the process, the baby was knocked out of the mother's arms and fell on the concrete sidewalk. I saw the handcuffed father and the limp injured infant, but not the
events as described by the student. I saw also that the other driver's car position shows his went through the stop sign while the T-boned father's car was on the road having no stop sign.
This is the types of stuff minorities often deal with. So when a kid or parent wants to be in a place where there is someone who actually understands them, it's no different than White parents. Which is why you almost never see white players and few White students at Grambling, Florida A&M etc. You won't see a coyote in a wolf pack either. It's natural for parents and people to want to be in a place where they're not wholly out of place because there are others like themselves. So the fact you don't get it is far more true than you can ever comprehend.