RikidyBones
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I don't call people uncle toms. There is no right way to be Black. We all don't act or think the same.
There are some Black people that will bash other Black people to prove they are, "not like the rest," or to try to fit in with their majority White friends, classmates, or coworkers. Some will get straight up called the n word and justify it as playing around or something like that. They could be spit on and slapped and would justify it to not make a fuss or remind their friends or coworkers they actually are Black. There are many Black people filled with self hate because they never were taught to love and respect themselves.I feel sorry for those types more than anything else.
What kind of oppression have you faced personally?
Whatever ignorant, stereotypical view of other Black people they have from been brainwashed by the media and their environment.
I legit have never seen anyone with a Social Justice degree.
Maybe you have had experiences others have not had, or you have not had the experiences that others have. If you are truly Black and think we aren't oppressed, good for you. That means you most likely had a sheltered life to not be exposed to some things others have been.
Whatever ignorant, stereotypical view of other Black people they have from been brainwashed by the media and their environment.
People that don't believe in equal rights or respecting other races, sexes, and religions are cavemen. Its not about believing everything the same but not having such a myopic worldview.
I don't call people uncle toms. There is no right way to be Black. We all don't act or think the same.
There are some Black people that will bash other Black people to prove they are, "not like the rest," or to try to fit in with their majority White friends, classmates, or coworkers. Some will get straight up called the n word and justify it as playing around or something like that. They could be spit on and slapped and would justify it to not make a fuss or remind their friends or coworkers they actually are Black. There are many Black people filled with self hate because they never were taught to love and respect themselves.I feel sorry for those types more than anything else.
OK since you want to ask me what personally has happened.
Passed over for promised promotions when results, seniority, and precedent was in my favor and everyone assumed I would get the job as the best candidate and workplace leader.
I have had this happen to me twice in my career
There were times I applied for jobs and I am pretty sure I didn't get them due to my race but that would be impossible to prove.
Ive never thought about race having to do with me not getting a job
At a job about 10 years ago I found out I made less than everyone else despite having more job duties than some coworkers while being considered a top employee who others looked to for guidance and training.
I'm going through this right now
Police harassment in many forms. I can't name how many times I have been followed and or stopped by the police in one of my cars. They followed me around Dillards in West Towne a week ago actually. It didn't matter that I shop their all the time or that I was dressed professionally. The jackazz still followed me until I stopped and stared at him and said something about it really loud to my gf.
I cant relate as this hasn't happened to me
Racism is not only oppression though. It can be believing other races are inferior. There have been too many instances to list were this has happened at work and school with bosses or teachers.
Do you think it's possible that you are perceiving this because you are predisposed to thinking this because of your environment as a young adult?
I have had it way better than many though. I didn't grow up super poor and I have good parents. I am an attractive light skinned man which has earned me some advantages not available to to other Black men. So I have not had it as bad as many I know or have heard about. I am not nearly as oppressed as many Black people have been. But once again one doesn't not have to be oppressed nor the the whole race have to be actively oppressed for their to be racism.
Forgive me but in all your examples of "no right way to be black" all the ones that aren't like you are doing so for the wrong reasons.
Maybe it's not what you meant but surely at least some black people who don't share your views aren't coming from a place of self hate or just trying to separate themselves (or fit in with whites). Sounds like you are delegitimizing their view point.
D4H... serious question. I can think of plenty of blacks who have improved themselves, but can you provide examples of those who you would consider "coons"? In other words, who are the black people you consider coons and what exactly did they do in "turning on their own people"?