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Agree.I've found that it doesn't matter how much money you make, you'll always want more. I figured out how much I need for my family and me to be "comfortable" and then focused on doing something I don't hate and not succumbing to the corporate ratrace. For me, work-life balance has become more important than money. I want to enjoy my life along the way, not when I'm old, gray, and retired.
Busted my tail and earned the trust of my employer and now I work 4 days a week remotely.
Every job has something about it that sucks... just find a career and make some goals that are worth suffering for.
Boca, banking must be a tough industry still these days. As I mentioned earlier, I am changing careers mid-life, and there is a bank manager that I'm going to law school who is resigning from the bank, cashing in his 401k, and going to law school. I'm in my early-mid 40' and he's closer to 50. Anyway, good luck on your journey!
I'm opening a new golf course... time is right I think.
Back in 2008 I went to work for a bankers bank headquartered in Atlanta called Silverton Bank. My office was in Tampa. This was the greatest job. 1st day, company car, credit card, etc.
For those that don't know what a bankers bank is, it's a bank that provides loans and services to community banks. If you recall the timeframe (2008) it was in the early/middle stages of the bust...and my bank took a lot of community banks down with them. There's nothing like showing up to work on Monday morning with US Marshals, IRS, & State Troopers waiting on you. The funny part is no one understood what we did. They didn't understand a bankers bank didn't hand out checking accounts, etc.
So the scramble was on to find a job even though I was told my dept. would be safe and acquired very soon. I didn't want to take that chance and accepted a job in Coral Springs to run the acquiring division of the processing software company. It was a job I didn't want, but it was a job. I built my side of the company up over 500% with 0 debt in just over 2 years. I absolutely hated every minute of it.
So in 2012, the owner of my company sold the portfolio I had built, so I left and started my own company. Everything that could go wrong nearly did. I'm now making decent money and found out the main bank that I work with is being sold. I don't know what that means for me at the moment but I, too, am looking into getting into something new.
What I have right now is a steady stream of income and time to learn a new line of business while keeping my current business going. I just don't know what to do. I've been to a couple of franchising meetings but I just don't know which way to go.
I'm not sure what has come over me the last couple of months, but I think I may take the plunge into going back to school. I graduated college with a bachelor of science in accounting 2 years ago. Since then, I realize I hate this field. I currently work for a financial institution as an analyst and I get no fulfillment out of it whatsoever. Maybe I'm just in a slump? I make decent money at a young age and it's not a "terrible" company to work for. Although I can't stand the thought of getting up every morning, driving 30 minutes only to set in a cube and play with excel all day. The drama in my department has only escalated me into giving this deeper thought. So I've thought about going back to school to pursue my first passion....physical therapy. Pretty drastic change I know. My biggest hurdle is the debt that I would incur. Estimating around 100k because it would take me 3 years. A DPT program is expensive and I wouldn't be able to work much if any. I'm currently debt free other than my house and taking on that much debt turns my stomach. At the same time, I have 40+ years of work left in my lifetime. I want to enjoy what I do. DPT's rarely make 6 figure salaries. At least in the short term. So it's really hard to justify the financial impact. My question to volnation....do you have a similar experience? Am I just young and in a career rut? Should I just seem a new employer in the same field? A quick note as well; I would need to go back and do a year of pre reqs at a community college. Which I could do while employed and pay as I go. The DPT program I'm looking at is 2 years after that.
Good luck with the girlAbout three years ago, at 36 years old and after 14 years as a paramedic, is decided I needed a little bit of change, so I went to nursing school. I worked full time at the same time, putting myself through school. As if things weren't already complicated enough, my (at that time) wife decided that she "wasn't happy", so I got divorced during all that as well. For the past year, I've been working as a nurse in a small town ER, and it's been a great change for me. I could make more and/or not have to work as hard in many other hospitals or areas, but I love the people I work with, and it's home for me. I keep money in the bank, even in savings, and I don't go without anything I need, nor most things I want. If I could just get out of the friendzone with this girl I'm really fond of, my life would be perfect, or at least close enough.