No, it's a you problem. "The hat is a symbol of hate........because it represents Trump. Nothing divisive about Obama"......your opinion, not facts.
"Obama, he didn't actively or passively try and divide the country like Trump has"..........your opinion, not fact. Yet, you think your opinion is fact.
Just as you call someone else willfully ignorant of their opinion, others feel the same about your opinion.
Maybe the contempt you have/had for Trump isn't political at all, and may be something you need to work on as a person.
Lighten up. None of your "people" care about you or your plight, not one of your side's elected officials would piss on you if you were on fire, same for the other side. Stop doing anything other than despising both parties because make no mistake, they collectively are laughing at the entirety of the populace and love nothing more than people who continue to lick up the sh** they speak.