I didn't think my post was going to spark a child support debate. Since it did, here's my two cents --
I'm a lawyer. I've been appointed by Courts on numerous occasions as pro bono Guardian ad Litem on behalf of kids involved in bad custody disputes (usually involving some type of abuse by either or both parents). I have been doing it for years. I can tell you for a fact that I have NEVER seen a parent thrown in jail for failing to pay the full amount of child support owed if that parent is making a good faith effort to pay what they can, even if that amount falls short of the court ordered amount. NEVER. Even if the parent is not making a good faith effort to pay, the Courts typically give MULTIPLE opportunities for the parent to start making some kind of payment (even the most minute amount) to avoid jail. In addition, because it does not accomplish the goal of supporting the child if the parent is in jail, Courts typically wait until the non-paying parent has racked up THOUSANDS of dollars in back support before putting them in jail -- at some point, it become blatantly obvious to the court that the non-paying parent is never going to pay, so jail is the only and last option to get their attention.
For those that don't know, the court uses a very specific calculation based on what the parent earns to figure out what he/she owes in child support -- there's NOTHING subjective about it. The parties are ordered to turn over pay stubbs, and an accounting of all their assets. In fact, parents usually are ordered to pay far less than they probably should pay b/c people are very good about hiding income. If the parent loses his/her job, gets a pay cut, has a necessary emergency expense (like a medical procedure), or somehow cannot afford to pay the ordered amount, that parent petitions the court for a modification of the order and the court adjust the amount accordingly. Likewise, if the paying parent starts to earn more then when the court ordered child support, the receiving parent can petition the court and ask that the amount of support be raised. There's no conspiracy involved (Rasputin Vol, I'm talking to you)!! Family court judges, most of whom are men btw, are very good at what they do and can typically smell BS from a mile away.
I understand your friend's pain Countvolcula (divorce sucks -- you lose time with your kid and it costs money), but at the end of the day, his kid should be his #1 priority above all else. If "extra expenses" come up, his kid should still be his #1 priority. I'm not saying that your friend is like this (or a bad dad), but you would not believe the "necessary" expenses that some parents put before paying their child support -- cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, a fancy car (instead of a modest car that just gets you from A to B), gifts for the new girlfriend (and HER kids), botox, money for the new boyfriend's hobby, cell phones, iPads, not wanting to liquidate stocks/bonds/401k's, etc. I'VE HEARD IT ALL and I almost can't believe my ears when I hear dead beat parents (moms and dads alike) try to give the judge an excuse of why he/she can't pay to support their own child. It's a total disgrace.
Knowing what I know and seeing what I've seen in person, I have ZERO sympathy for the people arrested in this sting. The odds of them having been given multiple chances to pay something (not everything, just something to show good faith) is near 100%. Lock em' up and throw away the key. They ARE deadbeats and deserve to pick up trash on the side of the highway in a prison jump suit.
:twocents:
Edit: Here's an article that talks about these parents -- each owed somewhere between $35,000 - $75,000 in back child support. It's not like they missed one or two payments and then were thrown in jail.
Gotcha! Police lure deadbeat parents to arrest with fake Iron Bowl tickets | al.com