It's Been The Darkest Time In My Life

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#326
Hey guys sorry for the delay but there's been another setback. Around 4 days ago she started vomiting and got a bad case of diarrhea that has not let up. Yesterday we found out that she's developed a severe Clostridium difficile infection in her intestines from all the antibiotics they've given to fight back the MRSA infection. She's fighting hard but she's in terrible shape. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't really worried right now. She is wasting away and there's not a damn thing I can do.

I don't know what I will do if I loose her.
 
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I know I have to but I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to raise the kids without her. They need a mother and a father is a poor substitute for a mom. Hell if she doesn't make it my youngest Brooke probably won't even remember her mother and Ruth will barely remember her.

I know it's selfish to say but I need her too. She has been my love for 17 years and I don't want to face this life without her. I know I have to and for my children but I don't want to.

I just want to wake up from this nightmare.
 
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dduncan4163 said:
I know I have to but I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to raise the kids without her. They need a mother and a father is a poor substitute for a mom. Hell if she doesn't make it my youngest Brooke probably won't even remember her mother and Ruth will barely remember her.

I know it's selfish to say but I need her too. She has been my love for 17 years and I don't want to face this life without her. I know I have to and for my children but I don't want to.

I just want to wake up from this nightmare.
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I know it’s a scary thought man, but try to stay positive, even though I understand it’s hard. I’ve had those same thoughts a few times concerning my wife, and it literally made me sick to my stomach to even think about. I wish I could be there right now, if nothing else to just hug you guys, and cry with you. I’ve learned sometimes that helps more than we could imagine.
 
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With all that being said she's still determined and fighting. I I know she can beat this back too. Her will is unbreakable.
 
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joevol33 said:
I know it’s a scary thought man, but try to stay positive, even though I understand it’s hard. I’ve had those same thoughts a few times concerning my wife, and it literally made me sick to my stomach to even think about. I wish I could be there right now, if nothing else to just hug you guys, and cry with you. I’ve learned sometimes that helps more than we could imagine.
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Thank you brother.
 
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dduncan4163 said:
With all that being said she's still determined and fighting. I I know she can beat this back too. Her will unbreakable.
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Brother, I'm so sorry. I can't do jack squat to make any of this better, but I promise a day doesn't go by that I'm not hoping and praying for your family.

I'll gladly talk to you any day, any time.

I'm sorry brother. Maybe your miracle is right around the corner.
 
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Wylo said:
Brother, I'm so sorry. I can't do jack squat to make any of this better, but I promise a day doesn't go by that I'm not hoping and praying for your family.

I'll gladly talk to you any day, any time.

I'm sorry brother. Maybe your miracle is right around the corner.
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Thanks so much brother
 
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dduncan4163 said:
I know I have to but I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to raise the kids without her. They need a mother and a father is a poor substitute for a mom. Hell if she doesn't make it my youngest Brooke probably won't even remember her mother and Ruth will barely remember her.

I know it's selfish to say but I need her too. She has been my love for 17 years and I don't want to face this life without her. I know I have to and for my children but I don't want to.

I just want to wake up from this nightmare.
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I feel for you my friend. I hope that her will and your love for each other gives her the strength to overcome this and get back home with you and the kids.
All of us in Volnation are hoping for the best.

Please reach out whenever you need to vent or share.
 
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dduncan4163 said:
With all that being said she's still determined and fighting. I I know she can beat this back too. Her will is unbreakable.
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She’s a strong woman. Her desire to beat this should be an inspiration to all of us. Hang in there.
 
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Your wife can be treated for this and can recover in the hospital. Had a friend in her 80s who got this after being on antibiotics for 2 surgeries. She was in the hospital a few weeks but made a full recovery. This is contagious and use soap and water, not sanitizer. Will keep praying.
 
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I just found this thread. May the Lord watch over your wife and heal her. Praying for you guys
 
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Hang in there and be as strong as you can for her. No matter what happens, you can and will be as strong as you need to be and then some.

Prayers sent for your beautiful family.
 
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#349
Good morning.
Laura texted me and told me that Dennis had messed his phone up so that is why he had not posted.
She was close to getting over the CDif and was at rehab closer to home.

She said “All you volnation guys have made us feel loved”

Hope we hear from him soon.
 
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VolFaninFla said:
Good morning.
Laura texted me and told me that Dennis had messed his phone up so that is why he had not posted.
She was close to getting over the CDif and was at rehab closer to home.

She said “All you volnation guys have made us feel loved”

Hope we hear from him soon.
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Oh my gosh, thank you!!!
 
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