I'm not so sure that your characterization is much different than mine except you lean more towards the Democrats as being more reasonable given the examples you used and ignored others that I see as important. I suppose we both have done that.
To lay the cutting edge of partisanship on McConnell for not bringing Garland to a vote, is an example of ignoring the actions of Harry Reid when he was the leader of the Senate. Do I really have to bring those up? I'm sure you are quite aware of them. Having said that, McConnell's actions are blatantly partisan and unfair. Garland should have been brought to a vote and defeated if that was in the cards. It wasn't and here we are. That still does not excuse behavior that has occurred before and since his nomination.
As far as Democrats behavior in the Senate regarding SCOTUS nominees, show me the extent of character assassination that the Republican Senators have engaged in to match or even come close to what the Democrats did with Bork, Thomas and Kavanaugh. The Democrats generally behave themselves when a nominee appears middle of the road but if there is any hint of a threat to their dogma, they will stop at nothing to destroy that candidate through attacks on his/her character rather than on the basis of prior rulings/statements.
It's shameful when they were going to vote "No" no matter what the nominee said in the hearings. In order to sway more "No" votes they tried to make the candidate out as a morally corrupt person because they didn't have enough or anything at all to sway votes on the basis of the nominee's actions from the bench.
It's sickening to me.
You listened to Rush Limbaugh? Why?
My post only appears one-sided because all of the holes that needed filling in your narrative were on one side. What you said is mostly factual, which is why I said it was more grounded in reality than some others. But you still ignored a lot in order to skew it. Adding the facts back is not a mischaracterization, it’s just correcting the record.
So, if you are saying that I see the Democrats as more reasonable than you see them, then sure, but that seems to be an incredibly low bar. If you’re saying I see them as more reasonable than Republicans, that’s a mixed bag that needs fleshing out.
I lived through the last roughly 20 years as a fairly politically aware and partisan republican. Democrats were infuriating. The way they treated W. Bush was shameful. The way they treated Romney and McCain was shameful. I disagreed with parts of their platform, but that’s mostly a wash.
But Republicans generally gave as good as they got. The partisanship was mostly symmetrical. This idea that they were innocent babes being picked off by raging Democrats is bogus. It’s no more truthful than saying that the Democrats were paragons of virtue.
So, while I agree that the exceptions to that balance more often than not involved Republicans being willing to take the high road, or Democrats going especially negative, those exceptions were not particualrly frequent and were what made the Republicans better representatives of me and mine.
But for the past 4 years, maybe longer, (the Garland nomination was just what made me take note of it) any attempt at being better has been abandoned by the GOP. And if your argument is that they were just trying to even the playing field, then they were stupid to try and they overshot the mark by a wide margin.