Alright...here's my $0.02 on softball recruiting. I've posted a long reply in another softball thread, and here's a summary of my thoughts right now:
Remember when Lane Kiffin offered a 13 year old earlier this month and several sports media outlets went bat crap crazy?
http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2709782-tee-martins-13-year-old-son-kaden-gets-scholarship-offer-from-lane-kiffin-fau Well, in softball this is the norm. You get 13, 14 and 15 year olds to commit to you before they commit elsewhere. Now, in softball it's a little different, as
1) scholarships are not all 100%. Each team has an allotment (12.5 I think). If you want to carry 13 players, you can offer 12 a full ride, and the 13th a half. Or you can offer 27 players all a half. Or whatever combo you want. Point is, it's not like football or basketball where an offer is 100%. So that is fungable. Each coach does what they want at each school.
2) Once a player "commits" they are off the table for other coaches to recruit. Unwritten rule. There might be some back channeling, maybe schools are asking around about how much money you got (see #1 above). Maybe you committed to a school for 50%, but they can give you 80%...that will make its way to the recruits family, but it's rare. For the most part if you commit as a 13 or 14 year old, other schools will back off.
3) They are 13, 14 and 15 year olds! Who knows what they will develop into between 8th grade and freshman year of college. I've used Ally Shipman as an example before, and will again now. It seems like we've heard about her coming to UT since she was first able to walk. She's still 2 years out! Think about that for those that have heard about her coming here for a long time now. Still 2 years out! The issue for coaches is not just getting the players committed, but making sure that when they commit as 8th, 9th or 10th graders, but making sure they keep working hard to improve every single day. That is the biggest thing, as the coaches are not with the kids so they rely on the travel ball coaches to make sure the kids are getting better. Sure, these are verbal offers and can be pulled, but if you do that there will be a backlash in the softball community. All the travel ball clubs, coaches, parents, etc will hear about how you offered someone a verbal and took it back. End of story.
All this to say, softball recruiting is probably the most speculative recruiting of all the sports out there. I've been at showcases and have talked with college coaches who see a 14u player they've heard about or has contacted them with interest, they want to get to know her, but really want to see her parents. Why the parents? They want to see how big mom and dad are, as in their mind they can project what the player will become physically.
There will be 8th grade girls this summer that commit to SEC schools, UT will probably get a commit or two from an 8th or 9th grader this summer. But you won't see it on ESPN. You won't hear about it on the radio. But it is happening every day. Right now as I type this there are 5 girls that just finished, or are finishing, their freshman year in high school that are UT commits. How many football commits do we have at that age? Basketball? Softball recruiting is a completely different world.