Marriage

If ever been married, have you had a marriage that ended in divorce?

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#1,151
#1,151
vol445 said:
Hopefully never happens to you guys but wait until your wife is diagnosed with a terrible disease even the drs haven't seen since 1884 and can't do anything about it. And it could be life threatening. 14 of 14 known cases ever. We are in our 40s it doesn't matter who is right any more
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good luck
 
#1,152
#1,152
jhen713 said:
Not divorced

My parents-38 yrs+ not divorced
My dad's parents not divorced(neither is living)
My mom's parents- not divorced, but my grandfather died before I was born and my grandmother later remarried and is still married to who I know as my grandfather.
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That's commitment and the way it was supposed to be. Cool story bro.
 
#1,153
#1,153
Celebrated 18 years yesterday. Earlier in this thread, I shared our struggles and the crossroads where we found ourselves. So thankful we weathered that storm. We continue to grow more loving towards each other. And my gratitude increases for who she is and what she does for our family.
 
#1,155
#1,155
McDad said:
Celebrated 18 years yesterday. Earlier in this thread, I shared our struggles and the crossroads where we found ourselves. So thankful we weathered that storm. We continue to grow more loving towards each other. And my gratitude increases for who she is and what she does for our family.
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Congrats McDad.
 
#1,156
#1,156
vol445 said:
Hopefully never happens to you guys but wait until your wife is diagnosed with a terrible disease even the drs haven't seen since 1884 and can't do anything about it. And it could be life threatening. 14 of 14 known cases ever. We are in our 40s it doesn't matter who is right any more
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Sorry to hear this. I couldn't imagine losing my wife (we are also in our 40s). Thoughts and prayers.
 
#1,164
#1,164
UTVOLKeith said:
yea i know i just need another couple or 10 years of it sinking in

will i outlive it?
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You'll have to get over it man. There are billions of fish in the sea. You can find one better than the one you had. Just keep working on your self, and don't wallow in your self pity. You're better than that.
 
#1,165
#1,165
Not gonna lie. Really starting to question my marriage. Here I am about to go to a wedding and miss the tennessee game. And to make it worse the wedding is in Alabama. Who are these people that are now considered my family?? Please advise.
 
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#1,166
golfballs said:
Not gonna lie. Really starting to question my marriage. Here I am about to go to a wedding and miss the tennessee game. And to make it worse the wedding is in Alabama. Who are these people that are now considered my family?? Please advise.
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A Saturday wedding in October is grounds for a caning.
 
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golfballs said:
Not gonna lie. Really starting to question my marriage. Here I am about to go to a wedding and miss the tennessee game. And to make it worse the wedding is in Alabama. Who are these people that are now considered my family?? Please advise.
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they live in Alabama, nuff said
 
#1,169
#1,169
You are not likely to get over a divorce. But you can improve your life. You can move on in a forward direction. I think that how long you suffer is going to be directly related to how much importance you placed on your marriage/family. The more it meant, the more it will hurt/paralyze you.
I progressed in stages. And not as fast as I would like. There will be setbacks. But after a year or so I started to realize it was time to stop presiding over the ruins of my marriage. It's over. Time to move on. Life just kept on rolling along and now it's not even a topic anymore. Every one that knew I was married now knows that I'm not. The jig is up.
You are forever changed after an unwanted divorce. But that doesn't mean you can be better. After living through it I can see how it can destroy a person's mindset. All sorts of trust issues, abandonment issues, and many other things. You can easily lose your hope and faith. Even your identity. It will become debilitating if you let it. But you've got to stay strong. Don't have pity parties. Don't wallow in it. Just keep on living, it gets better. Might not seem like, but it will.

Sidenote: PimpVol was stabbed in the back and he died a slow, painful death. R.I.P.
 
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ScornedPapaVol said:
You are not likely to get over a divorce. But you can improve your life. You can move on in a forward direction. I think that how long you suffer is going to be directly related to how much importance you placed on your marriage/family. The more it meant, the more it will hurt/paralyze you.
I progressed in stages. And not as fast as I would like. There will be setbacks. But after a year or so I started to realize it was time to stop presiding over the ruins of my marriage. It's over. Time to move on. Life just kept on rolling along and now it's not even a topic anymore. Every one that knew I was married now knows that I'm not. The jig is up.
You are forever changed after an unwanted divorce. But that doesn't mean you can be better. After living through it I can see how it can destroy a person's mindset. All sorts of trust issues, abandonment issues, and many other things. You can easily lose your hope and faith. Even your identity. It will become debilitating if you let it. But you've got to stay strong. Don't have pity parties. Don't wallow in it. Just keep on living, it gets better. Might not seem like, but it will.

Sidenote: PimpVol was stabbed in the back and he died a slow, painful death. R.I.P.
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Well said
I'm living thru all that
RIP pimp
 
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