I also think most fans would feel ok w an "outsider" and I also thought Wes M would have been a good choice. But a vocal, longtime, big donating sliver of influential fans disagree both w outsider and male. The point was that group has too much influence, IMO.
I'd be very surprised if such a survey, at least informally, hasn't been done. Part of marketing the effort. I'd also be surprised if the use of "Lady" isn't pointed out and ridiculed on the recruiting trail the same way it is on other team's fan boards, etc.
None of this is to disparage KJH. She may well have been the best available option. I really like her and think she's done alot right and may well be the answer. I sure hope so. But overall, being constrained from considering the best available coaching option bc of gender or lack of PS connection just seems a very bad idea moving forward. As does the continued use of the badly outdated "Lady". The brand would be fine w/o it IMO.