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Talk Dirty To Me
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Because I perceive that she offended another person by stupidly trying to use the N word with impunity because she's a pretty white girl who rarely hears no? I am not personally offended nor do I think kicking her out of school was the best move. I also don't cry for her because she acted a fool and suffered the consequences. I am a dispassionate observer to the entire thing and just enjoy arguing. I also don't get offended by black people using the N word as a means to take ownership of it while not wanting white people to use it due to its historically ugly nature. I'm getting the feeling that you are, in fact, offended by that, though. Am I right?You find what she said offensive. You champion the double standard that exists with that word by supporting the actions of UT.
Says the guy who sees nothing wrong with using the N word. Forgive me for not valuing your views on parenting
Because I perceive that she offended another person by stupidly trying to use the N word with impunity because she's a pretty white girl who rarely hears no? I am not personally offended nor do I think kicking her out of school was the best move. I also don't cry for her because she acted a fool and suffered the consequences. I am a dispassionate observer to the entire thing and just enjoy arguing. I also don't get offended by black people using the N word as a means to take ownership of it while not wanting white people to use it due to its historically ugly nature. I'm getting the feeling that you are, in fact, offended by that, though. Am I right?
I am deeply offended by the double standard. I am offended at the double standard exhibited by the left on a daily basis with this kind of thing. "We want diversity..." Yeah, they want that until it conflicts with a protected status. THEN it's "how dare you". Yeah, I am offended at this whole episode. I am embarrassed at my university's handling of it. It has nothing to do with her being "pretty". I'm 60 bubba. 18 year old girls do not get my fever up. I don't know whether or not she has heard the word 'no' or not. Do you? Is it relevant? And I don't think she was acting a fool. She was acting like a 15 year old girl, but being held to the standard that a 20 year old woman is held to. Yeah it's offensive.Because I perceive that she offended another person by stupidly trying to use the N word with impunity because she's a pretty white girl who rarely hears no? I am not personally offended nor do I think kicking her out of school was the best move. I also don't cry for her because she acted a fool and suffered the consequences. I am a dispassionate observer to the entire thing and just enjoy arguing. I also don't get offended by black people using the N word as a means to take ownership of it while not wanting white people to use it due to its historically ugly nature. I'm getting the feeling that you are, in fact, offended by that, though. Am I right?
So, you're projecting your being offended onto me? Got it.I am deeply offended by the double standard. I am offended at the double standard exhibited by the left on a daily basis with this kind of thing. "We want diversity..." Yeah, they want that until it conflicts with a protected status. THEN it's "how dare you". Yeah, I am offended at this whole episode. I am embarrassed at my university's handling of it. It has nothing to do with her being "pretty". I'm 60 bubba. 18 year old girls do not get my fever up. I don't know whether or not she has heard the word 'no' or not. Do you? Is it relevant? And I don't think she was acting a fool. She was acting like a 15 year old girl, but being held to the standard that a 20 year old woman is held to. Yeah it's offensive.
Because I perceive that she offended another person by stupidly trying to use the N word with impunity because she's a pretty white girl who rarely hears no? I am not personally offended nor do I think kicking her out of school was the best move. I also don't cry for her because she acted a fool and suffered the consequences. I am a dispassionate observer to the entire thing and just enjoy arguing. I also don't get offended by black people using the N word as a means to take ownership of it while not wanting white people to use it due to its historically ugly nature. I'm getting the feeling that you are, in fact, offended by that, though. Am I right?
You are attaching a stigma to her for the entire time she would have been at UT. Yeah, that's draconian. Maybe she should have had a tattoo as well.So, being given an opportunity to rectify a problem in order to avoid expulsion is no less draconian than expulsion? If you think so, then you're not using the word draconian correctly.
I partially agree with this statement. UT would have been better served to pull her scholarship but let her remain as a student if she completed some racial sensitivity training. As an institute of higher learning, they have an obligation to teach.
The education should go like this:
"Are you crazy? Don't you realize that you're not allowed to say that word unless you identify as 'Black?' Then it would be a term of endearment and give your Black friens the warm fuzzies, but your saying it as a 'White' person causes trauma and offense...even if you're just imitating popular Black celebrities or even singing along with Black music, which you're encouraged to buy but can't sing. You say that doesn't make any sense? Foolish White girl...don't you understand that you're living in the era of payback? Haven't you been paying attention?"
I said the name of the game is a slur which is true for many. Just because you say it's a fact doesn't change the definition. No different than your tiger example or an alternate name for ding, dong, ditchI didnt slur anyone.
I named a game that existed.
I gave a historical fact and kept it in context.
You can stand up on your soapbox all you want but don't insinuate I slurred someone.
Thank you.
So then both of them have the right to use the B word?
I define a woman as someone who was born with a vagina but you may consider the term more fluid and include anyone who feels they are a woman such as a transgender person who has not even went through the change yet.
So how do we know that a man at the split second he says the B word does not feel like a woman as he is saying it? Society clearly no longer feels x and y chromosomes decide gender.
Same as a black person? Is tiger woods black? Must you be 100 percent black to use the N word or does a bi racial person have a right to the N word also?
What about Africans who are born in Africa but are white? They live the African culture? Do they have a right to say the N word?
If a bi racial person does then what about a person with just 1 percent African in them? Are they black? If 1 percent is not black enough then what percentage is?
What if this girl took a DNA test and suddenly found out she was a quarter black and changed her name to a traditional Africsn name? Would she suddenly have the right?
A word is either unacceptable in society or it is acceptable for all. When you begin saying this culture has a right to a word but this culture doesnt then you begin to segregate and divide.
Ah....so you get a pass by claiming humor. Got it.