12 Speaking Habits That Make Millennials Sound, Like, Literally Unprofessional | Inc.com
I don't mind #5 or #6. The rest drive me nuts.
This all day long. I can't tell you how many times I've sat in meetings or have been around conferences where many of those corporate buzz words have been used. When I hear them, I think to myself "this person is a poser, trying to sound like they're saying something when they're actually not." It grates on me.Everything on this list, plus you could add about 100 more:
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Any word or phrase that makes a simple concept sound complicated drives me crazy, or clichés that you'd never say in any other setting.
If a buddy asks you to help him move and you're busy, you'd say "Sorry, I don't have time today." If your boss asks you to do something and you don't have time, people say "I don't have the bandwidth right now." Saying "leverage" instead of "use." Saying "utilize" instead of use. The word "synergy." "Take this offline" or "circle back" instead of "let's talk about this later."
In business or professional settings, people can sound so pretentious. I understand wanting to be professional, but that doesn't mean you can't also speak simply.
Im a late Gen Xer and many of those are just as prevalent in people around my age as they are Millennials.
Except up talking. That one is definitely a sub 30 year old trend.
True, they are more prevalent among Millennials though. #2 and #4 are exclusively Millennial.
Another one that they could put on there is beginning sentences with the word "so." I don't mind it here and there (ex. "Why are we leaving now?" "So we can get there on time.") but pay attention in normal conversation, especially in business settings, and see how it gets overused. It is especially prevalent in meetings or when a group of people is discussing something, and I think it is used as an attempt to control where the conversation goes.
You're talking about the slow, drawn out soooo to start off a sentence. Agree that one can be annoying, even though I catch myself doing it from time to time.
Along those same lines is saying "here's a thought". It just comes across as extremely condescending, which it originally was meant to be.
It's not as egregious as Superman, who is rendered unrecognizable by putting on a pair of glasses.
We always have to suspend our disbelief to some degree to step into the world of the story being told but the storyteller has to give you enough to work with to make it easy to do. If the internal logic of the story is set up well, you can, say, watch E.T. and the kids fly across the moon on their bicycles and just go with it (why are they pedaling anyway? what happens if they stop?).
But if they start disregarding even simple logic or physics it stands out and takes our minds out of the story. Like, if a guy shoots someone with a large gun and the victim flies off to the side or straight up into the air instead of straight backward away from the blast, then you're probably watching a John Woo film (especially if the flight is in slow motion).