This deserves atleast a bronze in mental gymnastics. I don't even know how to respond to this but I'll give it a shot.
One, what you're referring to is ingroup/outgroup transference, it's the same defense used for fraternity hazing, office politics, police academy hazing, etc. Two, it has nothing to do with the quality of her work (most comments have to do with her crying, playing female mind games, etc). Third, your example of mullen's wife is absolutely not fragile masculinity, if one said "it's just like a woman to think men need our boo-boos kissed" or "I'll give her something to kiss", those kind of jokes are rooted in classical sexism and display the qualities of fragile masculinity. And 4, what you're referring to is sociology, not social psychology.
You receive an F, everyone in the room is now dumber from reading your comment, and may God have mercy on your soul.