In that case, we agree to respectfully, but PROFOUNDLY, disagree. Bryant's course of action is not one that I would exercise toward an opponent that I respected. Now an opponent that I genuinely disliked or an opposing coach with whom I had a personal vendetta would be a different story. Like Neyland, Bryant always spoke of the Tennessee-Alabama rivalry with great respect. That is why Bryant's conduct on 10/18/1980 struck me as so out of character.
Neyland, on the other hand, definitely believed that there was a gentlemanly boundary you did not cross without incurring his wrath. Here is one fan's remembrance of events which illustrate this principle:
"[Johnny] Vaught's wins over Neyland happened right after Neyland came back from WW2 and was in the process of rebuilding the Vols. The first time Vaught ran up the score and won 43-13. Neyland was irate, because Vaught obviously ran up the score. Neyland said he'd never hold back against Vaught. The next season, Ole Miss eeked out a 3 point win, but no more after that... The following season, UT beat Ole Miss by 28. The following season, UT beat Ole Miss by 35. The following season, UT won by 25. And 40 years later, in the last Tennessee game my father saw before he died, gentleman Johnny Majors took a knee and left the ball sitting on the Ole Miss 1 at the end of the game, with my Dad up in stands saying: "
Go ahead and score. Neyland would have against Ole Miss" (cited in the comments section of
https://www.govolsxtra.com/news/2012/mar/28/gen-neyland-50-facts-50th-anniversary/).