While I respect your opinion I will just point out that I am not talking about leaving the Christian faith, only changing the way I address it. Your are 100% correct on the fact that most of Pauls writings were on "the church", that being elders, how to act, the order of worship and so on. But at this time in history the church building were really rarely used for Christianity, they met at a elders home, ate, fellowshiped, worshiped God, encouraged each other, and studied the word. Also the teaching in Titus were about not being a "Heavy Drinker", a gossip, womanizer and pretty much about being a good citizen and the book encourages everyone to be a teacher of "the Good news". As I really take it personal that one would say "sounds like excuses to me", really? That sound somewhat judgemental, see in my eyes faith and my relationship with Christ and the father are between him and I. That is the cool thing about God, he may speak to you and tell you to be a youth pastor and that is awesome and I hope your calling affects many many lives, he may tell someone else to worship with their family and thats ok, or he may speak different word to different folks and I feel like I am entering a new season of home study/worship with family and friends, I still like the church, it probably saved my life.